Just found out from my DH that my SIL is pregnant and due in May. I really am happy for them and hope she has a h&h 9 months. It will be cool having cousins only months apart although we don't see his side of the family very often. I have to confess though that when DH first told me I had this pang of jealousy that she got pg very quickly (2 month trying) and that I am sure she will have a perfectly fine pregnancy and never know how hard me and DH have had it and how much different we feel and how blessed we feel to be pg and having our daughter arriving soon.
Re: SIL is pg
I felt the same way when my cousin got pregnant for the 3rd TIME and we had been trying for what felt like forever (and this was even before the ectopic).
Congrats on your little girl!!