Pregnant after a Loss

I feel like crying... update on me

I've been having painful contractions and pressure all week.  I was sincerely hoping it would have made me progress. 

The day started out bad.  I woke up puking at 5 and I've been sick since.  I have a bad migraine also.  I went to the doctor and I'm still 50% effaced and a finger tip dilated. 

We talked about my extreme anxiety, and she said if I really wanted, she would induce me today, but since my cervix isn't favorable, it increases my chances of a c-section.  I really don't want a c-section.

So now I go for NSTs.  My first one is on Tuesday.  She says if I progress to 1-2cm dilated and 75% effaced then she will admit me and induce. 

The farthest she'll let me go is October 20th.  The thought of 11 more days of this makes me want to cry...  I really hope I can make some progress.

ETA: DH has decided to take his leave now.  He gets paid paternity leave, plus he has tons of vacation and sick time.  My anxiety attacks are minimal when he's home.  I have the option of taking meds but I really don't want to.  We decided it's best for him to be home with me. 

Re: I feel like crying... update on me

  • GL! I hope that you can get induced tuesday, but at least the end is in sight.

    Will they let you take anything for the migraine at this point? I know my OB gave me vicodin for mine but I think they said I will have to not take it towards the very end.

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  • Hang in there.. Baby will be in your arms soon!!
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    GL! I hope that you can get induced tuesday, but at least the end is in sight.

    Will they let you take anything for the migraine at this point? I know my OB gave me vicodin for mine but I think they said I will have to not take it towards the very end.

    I take Fioricet.  It works okay for me.  It takes the edge off.  I just took some so I'm hoping it kicks in soon. 

  • I'm sorry hun.  I hope things start progressing soon.  ((HUGS))
  • I'm so sorry you're going through this. I will pray for you and hope that you make some progress so you can be induced soon. Hang in there, I'm glad your DH will be home with you. HUGS
  • Thanks, ladies.

    I also want to add I am extremely grateful for a pretty easy 3rd tri.  It seems like we got all our complications out of the way during 2nd tri.  I'm so grateful for no GD or pre-e or anything like that.  I'm very appreciative that he is so strong and healthy and my doctor is cautious.

     

  • Awwww hun big hug. I hope you go into labor very very soon.
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  • Crossing my fingers and saying big prayers for you!  Take a deep breath, everything happens for a reason!  Your little one will be here soon!
    accordingtoabby.com" "From of suffering emerges the strongest souls. The most massive characters are seared with scars." Kahlil Gibran
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