Pregnant after a Loss

Rude people...

So yesterday at work some jerk says to be "Well you're about to blow, aren't you?" Uhhh no I still have 3 months left jack as$. My boss said I should have said to him "What are you talking about?" Just to make him feel bad. haha. And then some lady asks me "When are you due?" I tell her January 3rd and she says, "Well I'm due February 10th and I don't look anything like that." Arg I was so mad. She doesn't look anything like that because she was pretty fluffy. I hate being people's punching bag.
Married to DH 7/2/06 M/C - 7/08, 10/08, 4/12 DS - Gavin 12/31/09 Lilypie - Personal pictureLilypie Pregnancy tickers

Re: Rude people...

  • No offense to any fluffy people, because I myself always struggle somewhat with my weight, but I mean what kind of pregnant woman insults another pregnant women just for their own satisfaction???
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  • Lol.  I was at BRU around 27 weeks and a lady who was around 20 weeks looked about the same or even bigger than me.  I was so jealous!  I guess everyone feels differently about their bumps' sizes.  About a week later I got that "you're about to pop!" comment!  I found it vastly amusing.  People have to comment...they just can't help themselves, even if they know nothing about it!  Be proud of your bump!  You are growing a healthy baby in there!!  :)
    imageimageimageimageimage 9/07 m/c baby boy @ 18wks, 4/09 m/c @ 4.5wks
  • I can't believe another pg lady said that to you! Being pg she should know that every pg woman is going to look different. Geez!
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    Lol.  I was at BRU around 27 weeks and a lady who was around 20 weeks looked about the same or even bigger than me.  I was so jealous!  I guess everyone feels differently about their bumps' sizes.  About a week later I got that "you're about to pop!" comment!  I found it vastly amusing.  People have to comment...they just can't help themselves, even if they know nothing about it!  Be proud of your bump!  You are growing a healthy baby in there!!  :)

     

    Oh trust me I am sooo proud of my bump. I love it!!!! And love to show it off! It's the way she said it, she was basically calling me fat, not comenting on my bump. I guess you would have had to have heard the way she said it.

    Married to DH 7/2/06 M/C - 7/08, 10/08, 4/12 DS - Gavin 12/31/09 Lilypie - Personal pictureLilypie Pregnancy tickers
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    imageAB&TB:
    Lol.  I was at BRU around 27 weeks and a lady who was around 20 weeks looked about the same or even bigger than me.  I was so jealous!  I guess everyone feels differently about their bumps' sizes.  About a week later I got that "you're about to pop!" comment!  I found it vastly amusing.  People have to comment...they just can't help themselves, even if they know nothing about it!  Be proud of your bump!  You are growing a healthy baby in there!!  :)

     

    Oh trust me I am sooo proud of my bump. I love it!!!! And love to show it off! It's the way she said it, she was basically calling me fat, not comenting on my bump. I guess you would have had to have heard the way she said it.

    Ahh.  I hate it when pregnancy becomes a competition.  Who gains less weight, who shows first, who stays nice and slim, who doesn't get stretch marks, who has an easy L&D, who has the biggest baby, blah, blah, blah.  It is such a pain!  And, fwiw, I know you are proud of your baby and bump...I was just saying those things because that is what I would tell myself whenever I started to feel weird or bad about my appearance, weight gain, stretch marks, etc...  Just blow off those rude comments, you are doing great, and you look just how you should!  :)

    imageimageimageimageimage 9/07 m/c baby boy @ 18wks, 4/09 m/c @ 4.5wks
  • Thank you!
    Married to DH 7/2/06 M/C - 7/08, 10/08, 4/12 DS - Gavin 12/31/09 Lilypie - Personal pictureLilypie Pregnancy tickers
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