Who actually likes being pg?
Not me! I'm in this for the end result! I thought I'd enjoy it once I felt her moving around, but for me, her kicks are really uncomfortable, and she's just getting started! I realize I'm only a little over half way done, so things could improve, and I'd like to assume that when it's over I'll miss feeling her inside of me, but at this point, not so much.
I love that I'm pg and will get my baby out of the deal, but as far as the actual pregnancy, I'm really not having much fun.
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It changes daily for me. I honestly can't wait to have my old body back and not look so pregnant. As I head toward the end, I get annoyed with all the comments about how huge I am. It's like people have never seen a pg lady before.
On days when I am tired or extra sore or uncomfortable, it is harder. But I do love feeling her move. even though sometimes my belly gets sore. And DH is great to remind me not to feel bad that I can't do as much these days (heavy lifting, etc) since my body is busy gestating.
Oh, and I cannot wait to sleep on my back and stomach again.
I hated my first tri (I actually found myself cursing "supid baby" and felt terribly guilty.)
Now, I like it and feel awesome. I hit 2nd tri and feel better than I did pre-pregnancy.
Who knows how long that will last!
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Physically, pregnancy is great for me. I have felt really good the whole time and had very few of the normal unpleasant pregnancy "side effects."
Emotionally and psychologically, it's been hard to enjoy, because I have spent so much time worrying. It's kind of a bummer because I should really be loving it considering how well I am doing.
Joe and Ashley ~ June 16, 2007 ~ Olivia Rae ~ May 12, 2008 ~ 9:06 pm ~ 8lbs 4oz ~ 20.5 inches ~ Miscarriage of twins ~ April 16, 2009 at 6 weeks. ~ Surprise BFP 6/23/09 13DPO ~ Eleanor Rose ~ February 18, 2010 ~ 6lbs 15oz ~ 20 inches ~ Caroline Ruth ~ February 19, 2013 ~ 6lbs 12 oz ~ 19 1/4 inches
Our family is complete!
Like I said, I'm in this for the end result!
I remember being on TTCAL and thinking that anyone who'd complain about being pg was crazy, because at least their pg! But, I still say, if I could just have the baby and not the pg, I'd probably do that for the rest of my kids!
I'm in m/s hell, so not a good day for this. I've been sick 3 times so far today. Once I get to the good part--no m/s and moving baby--I'll like it OK.
Maybe my dr's nurse will call me back with some magic anti-nausea meds, though.
I barfed for almost 7 months...and still now on occasion. I started swelling at 17 weeks. I am getting more and more uncomfortable by the minute.
However, feeling her move inside me and being this close to my baby is the most amazing experience in the world. For that, I LOVE being pregnant and I wouldn't change it for a second :-)
1st pregnancy: m/c began 1/12/09 d&c 1/13/09 8wks. Baby stopped growing at about 6wks.
Delaney: Born 10/15/09
Gavin: Born 4/8/11
Baby #3: due July 10, 2014
I'm one of those who absolutely loves being pregnant. I've just loved it.
Even now, a day away from my due date and SO impatient to meet this boy, I still love it. I love the belly, I love the anticipation, I love feeling him move around - I'll really miss that part.
I will happily join the love fest! Pregnancy has been amazing for me. Yes I puked and was nauseated for 3 months straight but truthfully I was happy about even that b/c I knew the pregnancy was going to survive!! It was reassuring.
I LOVE feeling the baby move and having her with me morning, afternoon and evening. I also love my belly and my body. There was that weird period in the middle of the pregnancy when I looked like I had just eaten a few too many twinkies, but then once the bump formed it was awesome. I also LOVE the special attention I get from both male and female strangers. Women open up doors for me and are always complimenting me. Don't know about you but women are normally never this nice to me so it's a great change! I will definitely miss getting treated like a queen by random strangers! DH is also highly protective of me while I've been PG and that has been so sweet and endearing.
Overall - LOVE LOVE LOVE! (Keep in mind I have not experienced the labor part yet!
July 2004 abnormal pap, colposcopy and LEEP procedure ~ paps every 3 months all normal for 1 year
2006 all clear to start TTC
HSG Nov 2007 ~ all normal except mild left tube blockage
BFP #2 Dec 2007 EDD sept 3 ~ missed m/c ~ Feb 14 2008 ~ 9wk 2d D&C
BFP #3 Apr 2008 EDD Dec 10 ~ ectopic ~ May 2008 ~ 5wk 2d ~ emergency lap surgery, lost left tube
BFP #4 Jul 2008 EDD May 5 ~ missed m/c ~ Aug 2008 ~ 5wk 2d D&C - trisomy 16
RPL panel Aug 2008 ~ diagnosed with compound hetero MTHFR
BFP #5 Nov 2008 EDD Jul 31 ~ blighted Ovum ~ Dec 2008 ~ 4wk 3d ~ natural m/c at home for my birthday
BFP #6 Feb 2009 EDD Oct 15 ~ 4wk 3d ~ chemical pregnancy ~ Mar 2008
BFP #7 May 18 2009 ~ Gabriel Michael ~ Jan 19, 2010 ~ 7lbs 2oz 21"
TTC again since Jan 2011
BFP #8 Jun 2011 EDD Jan 20 ~ 5wk 6d ~ missed m/c ~ D&C
July - Hysterscopy removed some polyps, all clear for IUI with clomid
Aug-Oct - IUI - with Clomid all BFN
Nov-Jan - IUI - with femara and trigger = BFN
back to TTC naturally on our own hoping for another miracle.
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I really, really enjoy it. Physically, my body just does pregnancy really well. I don't really get sick (just had a week or two of "seasickness"), don't feel too uncomfortable.Had a short stint with insomnia, but that's over. I don't know if keeping up with my exercise has something to do with it or not, but I guess it does help.
I also am coming from a place where the only time I knew I had with Isaac was while I was pregnant with him. So things that some my find annoying about being pregnant, I learned to cherrish. When I couldn't sleep, I would get up and read him a story. When I woke up early, I would go downstairs and play him music while writing him a letter. I suppose a lot of it is all a matter of perspective.
And yes, once you're not pregnant anymore, you'll very likely miss feeling the kicks and wiggles. I know I did.
I do! I haven't had any complaints (other than acid reflux) so that could be why. I've been very lucky to have had a wonderful pregnancy!
I have 5 wks left and still feel great!
We had 2 years of IF trying to conceive #2 and one loss during that time. We are currently trying for #3! had another loss the end of June