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personal question (sex related=)

ok so i was wondering ...how long after birth did you and your man do the nasty Wink  and please let me know if you were csection or vaginal! thanks girls

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  • We will be trying tonight... eek.

    ETA: had a vaginal delivery with a 1st degree tear. 

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  • Vaginal delivery, 11.5 weeks
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  • I had a c-section.  We had sex at 3 weeks pp. I wouldn't recommend having sex before your pp check up though because regardless of whether you have a vaginal or c-section birth, there is still a chance of infection.  I was pretty lucky that I didn't get an infection.
  • You will need to wait until you have been cleared by your OB to have sex. The norm is 6 weeks, we waited till around 8 weeks, but that is because I was not ready at 6 weeks. I had a vaginal delivery.
  • c/s and i waited till i was cleared by Dr at 6w check up.

    since then...not so much. i'd rather sleep or eat ice-cream if the kids are in bed. :)

  • "do the nasty" lol. 3 weeks, once I stopped bleeding. All were vag births w/ no tearing or stitches. Lub helps too if you BF. It will depend on your delivery if you experience the tearing/stitches/hemi's/heavy lochia. oh yeah and who has time to bump uglies w/ a new baby on your boob all day and night! j/k...sorta 
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    "do the nasty" lol. 3 weeks, once I stopped bleeding. All were vag births w/ no tearing or stitches. Lub helps too if you BF. It will depend on your delivery if you experience the tearing/stitches/hemi's/heavy lochia. oh yeah and who has time to bump uglies w/ a new baby on your boob all day and night! j/k...sorta 

    bump uglies makes me laugh.

  • vag with episiotomy.. 4 weeks
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  • C-section.... last night... and one thing I suggest... is use LUBE.... OH MY!!!!!!! Felt like my first time!
  • vaginal with a 1 degree tear, L is 10 weeks on Friday, we haven't yet Embarrassed

    Poor DH! I stopped bleeding at 2 & 1/2 weeks but my tear didn't heal until about 8 weeks and now I am spotting from my IUD....I am hoping it stops soon!

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  • Vaginal, 2nd degree, 5.5 weeks, and it was scarier than the first time. LOL.

    But all in all, it was fine, lube and time are all you need. 

  • My doctor told me I could try to have sex once I felt comfortable, but I'm still a little too nervous to go for it.  I just stopped bleeding, and I had a couple second degree tears, so I wanted to wait at least until my checkup, which is tomorrow.
  • Vaginal, 4weeks.  It was the best sex I have ever had. No joke :)
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  • 8 weeks, c-section
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    C-section.... last night... and one thing I suggest... is use LUBE.... OH MY!!!!!!! Felt like my first time!

    Haha! =) I enjoyed this.

    But honestly, useful advice. I was considering trying tonight (just had my 6wk today) but now I'm thinking I'll wait until I can make it to the store...

  • I hate to say it, but we haven't even tried yet.  I've thought about it, though...DD is 2 1/2 months old.  I had a vag. delivery, just a small tear-no stitches.  I don't even know why we haven't...
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  • DH left for the other side of the country when i was 8.5 months pregnant and didnt come back until DS was 7.5 weeks old! Crying

    We did it as soon as we got home from the airport! LOL I didnt think we would - our emotions just got the better of us. Devil

    After i was a little worried b/c i had a vaginal delivery with internal and external 2nd degree tears but DH said i wasnt different at all! In fact, he thought tighter! Probably for lack of doing it during 3rd tri! LOL

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  • 4 weeks, vaginal, no tears.
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  • 8 weeks after vag + 3rd degree tear... and it hurt and I spotted afterwards.  It was not fun... I was grimacing in the dark :(


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  • vaginal delivery and 2 first degree tares.  We got the OK from my OB at 6 weeks then we first tried around 7 weeks... tried...... it hurt soooo bad, then we successfully tried again at 9 weeks, and it hurt sooooo much, i'm scared to do it again!
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