Just curious - you always hear people say that, but for me it did the complete opposite - it made me realized how messed up and selfish and manipulative my mom has been and how I would never in a million years treat DD the way she has treated me. She has been a crappy grandma who barely knows DD on top of that and I am seriously to the point where I am considering severing all ties with her - she is the one and only source of drama in my life and she is toxic to me.
Did having kids make you closer and more appreciative of your mom? or the opposite? Also, I am so jealous of you ladies with great mothers.
Re: Poll: Did having kids make you appreciate your mom more or less?
I agree completely. I also am amazed she stayed at home with all 5 of us and is only as crazy as she is.
It made me love and appreciate her a million times more than I already did.
If anything, it causes me guilt sometimes b/c I fully admit she was and is more selfless than me.
It definitely made me appreciate her more. While I've always understood how lucky I am to have a mom like I do, I didn't get it until I was a mom myself. She is my best friend now and I never would have called her that before I became a mom (and SAHM) myself.
I add the SAHM part because it has allowed us to 'hang out' basically 4-5 days/wk since she is a SAHW. We spend a lot of time together and my DS adores her.
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I know it could not have been easy married to my dad. I know my brother and I were accidents so she didn't think she would have all 3 of us.
Some of both, actually. I realize now just how tough it was to keep up with us, plus the kids she babysat, plus my dad's complete lack of help.
However, she went totally bsc on the discipline thing.
I know this may sound harsh but it made me appreciate her LESS!!! My mother left us when I was young, and while I do understand that she was having a hard time, I could never ever imagine leaving my kids.
I am working on forgiving her though!