1st Trimester

Fear!

I am so worried.... I am afraid of having sex.  DH and I have not done it since the BFP.  Early on I had a small bit of light brown spotting, it started 2 weeks of worry, fear, tears and changing Doctors.  We saw a heartbeat a week ago and the doctor gave us the thumbs up to travel and sex.  I am just so worried.  Is anyone else feeling this way?
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Re: Fear!

  • yes and no.  I had sex with my DH soon after we found out we were expecting but I didn't have spotting.  I am super worried about everything though so we haven't had sex in the last week.  Tomorrow is my first OB appointment so I'm sure I'll be more relaxed, for a minute anyway.  :)
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  • Welcome to my life. I have not had sex since the end of July! ah!
  • Congrats on hearing the heartbeat and getting a thumbs up from the Dr.!  I still have sex but I also can't sleep at night because I worry about everything.  I blame these boards.  But I definitely would relax after a great Dr. appointment like you had!
  • I was scared at first too.  After we had our first appointment and they did an internal ultrasound, I got over my fear.  I figured if they could poke around in there with that thing, I could have some sex! 
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  • imageKacsurc:
    I was scared at first too.  After we had our first appointment and they did an internal ultrasound, I got over my fear.  I figured if they could poke around in there with that thing, I could have some sex! 

     

    this go for it go slow you may find it very enjoyable 

     

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