so, i was so excited about my u/s today b/c i was hoping to find out the sexes (which i did). MH and I have known about this appt. for 2 weeks. well, i got home from school at 9:30 last night to MH and his 2 friends drinking at my house. they're all going to go out to a bar.
i asked him not to go b/c of the u/s (ha!) and then asked him to at least come home early - like no later than 12. i usually don't care, but my u/s was early as hell today and he is extremely loud when he comes in; always wakes me up.
12:40 - not home. call him & he says he is in a beer pong tournament and can't leave. told him he better forfeit if he knows what's good for him.
1:10 - he gets home. falls in bed with his clothes on, after throwing everything off of the couch onto the floor b/c his friends are going to come back to our house and pass out when they leave the bar at 3 am.
1:50 - 2:30 - wake up to MH gagging and then throwing up on the floor next to the bed. he said he would clean it up in the morning, i made him get up and do it immediately.
this morning, he goes into the bathroom and throws up again and says he can't go b/c he's too sick. i told him fine, i would call him and tell him what the sexes are. he agrees to go. while we are in the u/s room, he leaves so he can go throw up.
sorry this was so long - i just don't even know what to do right now. i am at work crying (which may just be b/c of the hormones, or the only 4 hours of sleep i got). thanks for reading.
Re: i hate MH (vent - long)
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TTC #2 - May 2012 -IUI #2: BFP
i think those were my exact words - well, juvenile, irresponsible, and selfish. WTF was he thinking? he usually doesn't act like that, so i'm really at a loss.
it doesn't help that all of his friends are single, w/ sh!t jobs and no responsibilities to speak of.
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c/p 4/1/11
DD2: milk and soy protein intolerant, allergic to eggs, soy, peanuts, tree nuts, sesame, bananas
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TESE for DH 08/09/09
ER 08/09/09; ET 08/14/09; Beta #1 08/23/09: 150; Beta #2 08/25/09: 267
TTC #2: FET #1: BFP
ET 06/16/11; Beta #1 06/25/11: 282; Beta #2 06/27/11: 777
First u/s: Twins! Baby A stopped growing @ 9 weeks, forever in our hearts
TTC #3: FET #2: c/p lost at 4 weeks
grrrr. I would have been pissed. Hell, I am pissed!
A sit down discussion on "appropriate unbecoming an expecting father" is in order between the two of you.
This. Unacceptable.
actually, i just asked him that exact thing on the phone. he said, "i'm sorry," and i said, "you don't sound sorry. what are you going to do to make this up to me?"
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