This is a vent. I know I can't do anything about it except to offer advice when requested. But I have to get this off my chest.
My bro is dating someone with a child and is just not handling it very appropriately. He uses the kid to send messages to BF (like to feed him better), thinks they should deny visitation because the BF doesn't have his DL and shouldn't drive, and blows up at the fact that BF doesn't pay CS.
He just doesn't get the idea of using the proper channels to make change happen. I don't envy his situation, but I feel like he is acting like a 12 yo about it.
They plan on getting married next year, and I just don't think that he knows what he's getting into.