1st Trimester

How to tell DH?

Wow -- I'm still in shock that the test was positive! We've been trying for a couple of months, so I know that DH will be excited. However - I don't know how to tell him! I found out about 2 hrs ago, and he came home from work about an hour ago. I always thought that I would send baby books to his office, or start leaving clues around our place, but now I'm not so sure. I think I have until tomorrow night until he starts to ask how soon we'll know either way. Does anyone have any ideas or suggestions on how to break the good news? :)

Wow.... I still can't believe it! 

Re: How to tell DH?

  • Do you have any pets?  If my H was not with me when we tested, I was going to get a shirt for our dog that said big sister. 
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  • I just flat out told mine and it was awesome!
  • Tell him you have something to show him...then hand him the positive pee stick.  Or ask him how he would really feel if he were going to be a Daddy, then tell him he needs to get ready because baby sassafras is on the way.
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  • The first time I was pregnant, I got an ice cream cake. Can't remember what it said. Something like "We're pregant." Ended with m/c within a week.

    The second time, I just told him. I didn't want to jinx it. And I can't get as excited this time until we go to the first appt. and put some worries aside.

    Whatever you do, he will love, I'm sure!

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  • I would just show him the positive test stick...with a big grin....I don't know how you have held it in this long!
  • as soon as i got a bfp, i ran into the room with the stick in had and told him.  i don't know how you've held it in for so long! congrats on the bfp btw!
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    I would just show him the positive test stick...with a big grin....I don't know how you have held it in this long!

     As soon as DH got home from work I had to show him the HPT. I was bursting to tell him! It was almost his birthday so I said, I have an early birthday gift for you and told him to close his eyes and came back with the test and told him to open his eyes! 

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  • I would just show him the test.  How can you wait until tomorrow???  I think that's kinda mean!  There's no way I could do that...

    BTW, congrats!

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    Carter Robert 7.18.08 | Brynn Sophia 5.24.10 | Reid Joseph 9.10.12 | Emerson Mae 1.27.14

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  • I showed DH the pee stick to confirm that I wasn't hallucinating.
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  • Thanks to everyone for the great ideas!

    Well - I just *LOVE* surprises and Ithis is a moment that I've thought about for so long that I just really want to make it something big! I heard another idea at work today - make dinner tonight with baby carrots, baby peppers, etc, and then tell him the news! Now I have to choose between all of these great suggestions!! :)

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