I'm not one to dwell on things, but for some reason this just kinda stuck w/me. Please let me know if I am just being stupid & if I need to just drop it.
On Saturday we were bored so we decided to walk around the mall looking for Halloween stores. On our way we passed by Old Navy & I remembered that their jeans were on sale for 11$ & Carter only has 2 nice pair (aka no holes in the knees!) so we stopped in there. I was unsure of the size he needs so we were in the dressing room for about 10 min trying to decide which was the best size. Once we decided I went back to the rack to choose what color/style we wanted. Somewhere in the middle of that dh said something like "I don't care, lets just get out of here." I said "it's not like we have anything to do today anyways" and his response was "The last thing I want to do is spend my day shopping for clothes for him." That kind of hurt my feelings. I wanted to rebuff with something but I didn't want to make a scene. We had only been in the store for 15 min. If it were his son that needed clothes would he have had the same reaction? To be clear I RARELY go shopping for kids clothes when I am with dh. I typically just take Carter when he get off from pre-school & go because i know my dh doesn't care for "that" kind of shopping. Anyways, because I felt like he was rejecting my son, it hurt my feelings. We are married now & his dad isn't in the picture. Carter didn't notice but I would hate for this situation to repeat itself when he is older & maybe feels rejected from my dh.
Am I just being a momma bear? Am I just making a big issue out of something that I shouldn't be?