TTC after 35

Update from this morning

The u/s showed a sac with nothing in it.  Nice and implanted high, though. whatev.  I'm 6w 3d today, and the last time, the fetus measured at 6w 2d and was an actual fetus with a heartbeat.  There was NOTHING in there today.  

So, they pretty much couldn't tell me anything until the bloodwork came back and it did.  My hcg was 209 on 9/12 so I should be right around 3200 at the least.  It was only 800.  My progesterone on 9/12 was 11.8, so I started popping these damn pills and now it's down to 7.2 WITH the pills.  So, I suppose it's only a matter of time.  I really don't want another d&c, but I don't want to miscarry in the middle of class, so I'm not sure what I will do now. 

Anyway, thank you SO very much for your good thoughts today.  I really appreciate it. 

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Re: Update from this morning

  • taratru, I'm so, so sorry.  I hope you and DH are doing okay.  You will be in my t&p.
  • So very, very sorry. T&P headed your way.
    1 ectopic 3 m/c's prior to 5/05 Un-freaking-explained IF 5/05 IVF, BFN 9/05 FET 3d5e, BFP = Beautiful Baby Girl (lucky pg #5) 8/08 Fet 3d5e, cp 12/08 IVF with PGD, transfer 3, BFN 5/09 FET transfer 4, BFN Hail Mary IUI with Follistim 9/11 BFP; 9/22 confirmed tubal/MTX 4/10 FET 3d5e, BFP!!!! m/c 5/26/10 1 year break and yet another m/c 5/11 FET #5 initial beat 121, second beta 7 Lap and removal of L tube and very mild endo 7/11 Suprise BFP 12/11 & m/c @ 8 wks. After 11 losses and one beautiful miracle our journey is over, we are thankful and at peace.
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  • I am soo sorry..hugs your way..spend some time with that precious daughter tonight...she will bring you some joy..
    "Onward"--CathyMD Waiting since 07/5/2011 for our forever child! Yep we are adopting!
  • Oh no...I'm so sorry. It is just not fair. (((hugs))) You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • I am so sorry to hear this.  You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • My thoughts & prayers are with you & your family!!
    IVF - 9/09 - BFN! :( IVF #2 - ER 3/16; ET 3/18 with one embryo Beta 3/30 -- BFN! :( IVF #3 - 5/10 - BFN! IVF #4 - 11/10 - BFP. m/c at 6weeks :( FET #1 - 2/11 - BFP. beta on 2/21 :) Thank you God! :) u/s on 3/7 showed TWINS! u/s on 3/11 TWO heartbeats! Couldn't be happier :)
  • I am SO so sorry :(

    As you know, I just went through a simliar thing, and induced the m/c with miso yesterday. So if you want to talk do PM me.

    ((((((hugs))))))))))

  • I'm so sorry to hear this!  I understand your quandry on what to do about the m/c.  Are you still bleeding or has it slowed down?  Does your OB have a suggestion on what they recommend?
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  • I'm so sorry.  It's so hard.  Please take care of yourself. 
  • imageNowDNAtoo:
    I'm so sorry to hear this!  I understand your quandry on what to do about the m/c.  Are you still bleeding or has it slowed down?  Does your OB have a suggestion on what they recommend?

    Of course to make things better, my OB is on vacation this week, so I saw another doctor in the practice.  She wants me to go back Wed for another beta to make sure.  I don't really know why.  The nurse I spoke with today told me what to expect if it naturally happened in the next couple of days.  I'm still bleeding as I was this morning and have been all day. 

    I'm just sort of...deflated right now, kwim?  

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    1/1-New Year's 5K-22:11
    2/11-Sweetheart Classic 4-mile-29:49
    3/24-Coulee Chase 5K-21:40
    5/6-Colorado Marathon-4:08:30
    5/28-Bolder Boulder 10K
  • i'm so sorry.  I really hoped everything would be ok.  Good luck in the days to come. 
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  • I'm so very sorry, lots of thoughts and prayers to you and your DH.
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  • I'm so very sorry.  There aren't any words to describe how sad I am for you.  I never expected this update and thought everything would be ok.  Take time for yourself and time to grieve this loss.  T&P remain with you.
  • Tara, I am so unbelievably sorry for this loss. ?I know how badly you wanted and loved this baby. ?I know there are no words. ?Please be kind to yourself. ?

    So many thoughts and prayers going out to you and your family.?

  • I am so sorry. my heart breaks for you.
  • Oh Tara - Im so sorry for your loss.  My heart breaks for you and your DH. 
  • I'm so sorry for your loss!  Lots of hugs to you.
     
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  • I am so sorry.  Lots of thoughts and prayers for you and your family.  {{hugs}}
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  • I have no better words than to say I'm really sorry to hear this. I hope you find some comfort in the coming days.
  • I'm so sorry. Know that you have my t&p's.

    (((hugs)))

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  Take the time you need to grieve.  You and your family are in my T&P.

  • I am sooo sorry...  :-(

    You will be in my thoughts and prayers...

    (((((HUGS))))) 

  • I am so sorry Tara.  I can't even imagine how hard that news was to hear.  T&P to you.
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  • I'm so sorry.  You are in my T & P.  <<Hugs>>
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  • I am so sorry. There are no words than can express the pain you are going thru. I wish I could send you a cyber hug.
  • I'm so, so sorry for your loss.
  • I'm so sorry, Tara.

    (((((hugs)))))

  • {{{{{{{{{{Hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}  I am so sorry!
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  • Tara I am so truely sorry.  I'm sending all my healing juju up north to you and your family. Left Hug
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  • Oh wow!  I totally missed this. I am so so sorry.  Sending hugs your way. 
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  • I am so sorry that you are having to go through this. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • I'm so sorry and my thoughts and prayers are with you...
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