MY FH HATES FACEBOOK

teakum

And its so getting me in trouble. I get on and his nosey loud mouth friends call him and is like T just said.... Kateley had a wonderful day or soemthing stupid and FH gets so angry at me. I really have to break my FB addiction!

acppa

This sound mean but I'm really not trying to be.  Why the heck are your FHs friends telling him what you write on FB?  

acppa

This might sound mean but I'm really not trying to be.  Why the heck are your FHs friends telling him what you write on FB?  

I'd un-friend this person.  

teakum

acppa:

This sound mean but I'm really not trying to be.  Why the heck are your FHs friends telling him what you write on FB?  

 

 they are his guy friends... and who knows!

teakum

i am in the process of Unfriending them! its just stupid like ohh I saw where T is having a pampered Chef party. Well yeah I sale the stuff! Or I saw where T is having ChezAmi at the house what is that. If you want to know ask me on FB don t call him! Anyway

neverblushed

Yeah, this has "bad news" and "lack of boundaries" all over it -- on the friends' part, not yours! 

What's the source of your FH's dislike of you being on FB?  Is it that he just doesn't like FB, or does he have trust issues, or doesn't he like the time it consumes?

teakum

He is super private and does not want ppl to know his bus. and they don t they know mine taht I post but that still drives him nuts. HE also hates MySpace too.

teakum

He is not crazy about the NEST either, but oh well. I don t "REALLY" know anyone here to tell on me!

neverblushed

Hmm...

Can you assure him that you have a good sense of what's appropriate to post (just trivial stuff about your day) and that you are really sensible about posting personal things in your status?

Sept17.05Bride

You can change your settings for those people so that they aren't really able to see much from your page.

teakum

I guess I do need to sit down and show him he has never been on any of the sites to my knowledge but "hates then all". maybe if he saw how simple and harmless they are he would be okay. To be honest FB is GREAT for my Pampered Chef business!! But oh well

neverblushed

I would emphasize the "it's great for my business" idea, but don't make it seem like it's all just for your business, because you do touch base with friends through FB. 

I wouldn't assume you have to curb your FB addiction if your FH is just against all sites like this, though.  That's his choice.  You have a right to choose to participate on these sites.

Mrs.Gabortiz

My DH hates it too.  He makes fun of me about it more than anything else, but I just don't stress about it.  I don't want it to be a big issue, so I don't make it one.

Vrbka

My husband hates it as well.. he just tells me to get off facebook and i tell him to shut up he makes fun of his friends that are on facebook..  i would just block his friends from seeing your status..