TTC After a Loss

Somebody call the waaaaahmbulance....

because I am acting like a big cry baby today!!!!

Long story short, my ILs paid a ton of $$ for a band from NYC to play at our wedding last year. Great, unnecessary, but thanks. Turns out the band is playing at a bar near our house on Saturday.  DH asked if I wanted to go - I said maybe (cuz I am lame). 

Fast forward 2 days and now DH texts me that "oh btw, my parents are coming to watch the band too.  They are coming tonight and staying the weekend"

WAAAAAAHH!!!! You would totally understand if you met them - they are absolutely exhausting people - it will be a weekend of passive agressive manipulation.  I am actually so upset I am crying over it.  We have had houseguests almost every weekend for the last 2 months (mostly his obnoxious family) and I am sick of it! 

I just want one weekend alone with DH. :::POUT:::

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    I'm sorry. Maybe they'll head out early Sunday so you can have some time with DH

  • I think you're whining and crying because of hormones because you're totally KU   Big Smile

    At least that's what I've been telling myself all day about why I'm whiny and on the verge of tears.

    On a serious note though, I'm really sorry about the unexpected visitors...I would probably be pretty upset with my DH if he didnt check with me first. 

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    because I am acting like a big cry baby today!!!!

    Long story short, my ILs paid a ton of $$ for a band from NYC to play at our wedding last year. Great, unnecessary, but thanks. Turns out the band is playing at a bar near our house on Saturday.  DH asked if I wanted to go - I said maybe (cuz I am lame). 

    Fast forward 2 days and now DH texts me that "oh btw, my parents are coming to watch the band too.  They are coming tonight and staying the weekend"

    WAAAAAAHH!!!! You would totally understand if you met them - they are absolutely exhausting people - it will be a weekend of passive agressive manipulation.  I am actually so upset I am crying over it.  We have had houseguests almost every weekend for the last 2 months (mostly his obnoxious family) and I am sick of it! 

    I just want one weekend alone with DH. :::POUT:::

    I know how you feel. I also have the inlaws from you know where. *sigh*

    BFP #1 4/2/09 EDD 12/6/09 -MC 4/12/09 BFP #2 6/2/09 EDD 2/14/10 -Ectopic in Tube, Surgery 6/23/09 BFP #3 10/15/09 EDD 6/27/10 -Daniel John 6/21/10 BFP #4 Oct 2010 Chemical Pregnancy BFP #5 8/19/11 Beta #1 82.8 Prog 17.25
  •  I always take a deep sigh when we go over to the inlaws. They are not bad people, but yes it is so exhausting. Hopefully next weekedn you can have some quiet time with you and DH.
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    I think you're whining and crying because of hormones because you're totally KU   Big Smile 

    Oh I really hope you are right:)

    Funny thing is we just had a conversation this morning about how much "family time" we have had the last couple of months and how we need a break.  Apparently I need to be more blunt. Indifferent

    MIL is going to spend the whole day talking about babies and TTC.  She thinks she is the freaking expert on everything.  My own body included. Arrgh.

     

     

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  • Yuck - DH didn't consult with you before inviting the in-laws??  I'd beat mine senseless.  I love my in-laws and all, but i can't stand to be around them for an hour, much less a whole weekend. 

    I'm sorry you don't get your weekend alone....  Big bummer.

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    Yuck - DH didn't consult with you before inviting the in-laws??  I'd beat mine senseless.  I love my in-laws and all, but i can't stand to be around them for an hour, much less a whole weekend. 

    I'm sorry you don't get your weekend alone....  Big bummer.

    I am thinking that maybe I can use this to get him to take me somewhere really nice next weekend for alone time.  Yes, I think that is the only upside to this situation.

    .....hmmmm....where to go, what to do....what can I have him buy me....Devil

     

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  • that sucks girl, i am sorry. GL!

    ps, i called the whaaaambulance. they will be there in 2-7 hours. 

    Missed MC 1 - 11/21/2006 Missed MC 2 - 03/10/2008 BFP # 3 09/18/09 - Gabriel David born 05/11/2010 baby
  • I'd be exhausted too.  Sometimes you just need a break from entertaining people regardless of who they are.  Sorry your weekend plans got ruined - AGAIN. :(
    Marie, wife to Ron, mom to DS
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