My girl is seriously growing/testing me. When we're on the floor playing she does this thing where she'll come over and bite my toes, heels or ankles. And she bites HARD! I tell her "no biting" in a firm voice, but she just bites harder and then smiles big-time. She keeps doing it too!
I know consistency is key and she will learn not to do it, but in the meantime it's an interesting experience in patience.
Re: When I tell her "no" she straight out laughs!
Oh gosh.. That must be trying!
Eve laughs when we tell her no sometimes too.. but i know she's too little to know better yet.. I also said to her today "say mama" and she went "heh heh".. not an all out laugh.. like a dry, "yeah right".. kind of laugh.
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Eve Amelia- Born 2/24/09. 6lb 9.9oz
Natalie Ruth - Born 6/13/11 7lb 6.6oz
Is that where the term "ankle biters comes from? Lol!
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Right now Haileys cries when I tell her no. She gets very upset. She will listen but will cry.
There are a few times she doesnt listen. When this happens, I look her in the eyes and firmly say, with a serious face (i will put in your situation) "OUCH thats hurt Mommy" "NO biting" 2x. If she still doesnt stop I will redirect her to where she cannot continue the behavior.
abj- Hailey used to spit out and play with her purees. When she did I would say NO spitting and stop giving her food until she asks for it. If she does it again I will repeat. If she does it a third time, mealtime is over and I take her outof her high chair.
consistency is so hard and def tests your patience. I worked with autistic children, some of who had some pretty extreme behaviors, and it was hard to keep my cool sometimes.
mclstar makes some great points/advice.
Avery has tried biting me while she nurses - TWICE. And after the last time, I don't think she'll ever do it again. She bit me and my immediate reaction was to yelp! and then I sternly said "NO!" and took her away from the breast. She got her feelings SOOOO hurt. It was almost sad when she went back to nurse because she was SOOOO careful to not bite again.
Biting is a HUGE issue with Day Care. If they bite, they get sent home so we are hoping that she doesn't try it.
Avery laughs when I tell the dog No though. which I find funny. She laughs when the dog gets in trouble. otherwise we try to redirect her behavior. Avery will pat us but sometimes it is too hard so we'll tell her "No, we don't hit mommy/daddy, we are GENTLE" we usually put our hand on hers and show her how to pat/rub nicely. If she continues the slapping, we put her down and walk away (or as away as you can with a baby, ya know?)
Good luck with Maya! she's already a spitfire of a baby!