Should I call out BIL?

PD's_Momma

BIL & SIL got into a fight over the weekend (they are my SO's siblings) during the argument he called her DD's bastards because she got married to DD 1's dad when she was preg & hasn't married DD 2's dad yet (they are engaged).

SO & I are not married (we like to think of ourselves as the plus sized Kurt & Goldie). Should I say something to BIL about calling the girls bastards since by his standards my DS is one as well & let him know he can't make a blanket statement like that & I am offended, or should I just let it die?

brandonsfuturewife07

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i would just MYOB.

megontoast

let it die. he said it out of anger and not even directed at you or your kids. You would just be starting more (unnecessary) drama by bringing it up.

tarebear9891

megontoast:

let it die. he said it out of anger and not even directed at you or your kids. You would just be starting more (unnecessary) drama by bringing it up.

This. I can't imagine wanting to get involved in something like that. There is no valid reason for him to say something like that about her kids but you don't know exactly what went on and what she might have said to him.

Quazel

While it would piss me off, I wouldn't get involved.

KamiSuzanne

It's their fight, stay out of it and give him the side eye everytime you see him, just to make yourself fell better

PD's_Momma

Thank you ladies!! I was about 99% sure that I wasn't going to say anything but it had been nagging at me.

SIL pissed him off over a b-day present. I will deff give him the side eye. If he brings it up around me I will say something to him. It just irks me that he has this attitude & wonders if he would say this about my DS if he was mad enough.