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Quick! Dilemma!

LerxieLerxie member
in Babies: 9 - 12 Months

A co-worker just posted FB pics of her c-section and new baby.

In one of the pics, there is clear nipple-age going on.

We are not close, do not really talk on FB, but of course I would want someone to let me know if I overlooked one of the many non-FB friendly pics that were taken when I was a tired mess.

How do I go about this gently?? I feel like I just want to text her "OMG go delete your entire photo album!" but she is like 4 days PP and I don't want to upset her. Although, if I wait on this any longer, I would feel terrible for not saying something sooner. Poor girl!!!

::scurries to phone::

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  • CA2006CA2006 member
    Go tell her NOW!! 
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  • britti<3britti<3
    I'd be pissed if someone didn't tell me my boob was hanging out, but she put it up there so I would assume she knows.
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  • excitedforlittleoneexcitedforlittleone member

    Just be honest.  Say something like "I don't know if you are aware of it but you can see some of your breast in one of your pictures.  I wasn't sure if you were aware of it  or not and didn't want you to be embarrassed if people saw it." 

    I did this.  I accidentally put up a pic that had something not appropriate in the background.  I was just so tired when I uploaded them I didn't notice.  Someone told me and I was so glad.

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  • NewlywednOhioNewlywednOhio
    I would call her immediately and save her the embarassment. Close or not, you don't want her to be humiliated. KWIM?
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  • Garnetbaby09Garnetbaby09
    "Doode, your boob is showing."   She NEEDS to know. 
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  • LerxieLerxie member
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    Just be honest.  Say something like "I don't know if you are aware of it but you can see some of your breast in one of your pictures.  I wasn't sure if you were aware of it  or not and didn't want you to be embarrassed if people saw it." 

    I did this.  I accidentally put up a pic that had something not appropriate in the background.  I was just so tired when I uploaded them I didn't notice.  Someone told me and I was so glad.

    That is exactly what I'm thinking.

    I just called -- no answer but left a message. That was awkward as a co-worker but obviously I needed to do it.

    Sending a FB message now too.

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  • eminbmoreeminbmore member
    You definitely did the right thing.  Awkward or not, I'd want someone to tell me too!
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  • jenerallyjenerally member
    just a gentle, "loved the pictures, but you may want to look again ... I think one might be NSFW"
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  • JAWMINJAWMIN member

    this remnds me of the stfu parents site


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