TTC after 35

don't be offended.

I feel like the old TTC+35ers are leaving me..I don't know the new people and I am feeling sad that I am going to be the only one left...Crying Makes me sad...

Guess if I got KU it wouldn't matter would it...

"Onward"--CathyMD Waiting since 07/5/2011 for our forever child! Yep we are adopting!

Re: don't be offended.

  • I don't know if I count as old or new, but I am still here! At least for a few more weeks! And quite honestly, I am not really confident about this month. FF hasn't given me cross hairs, I didn't take my Femara, and we never got pregnant when I didn't take Femara. So...I will probably be around for a bit! Hang in there, Baze!
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  • Yay Lizzy, there are still friends here. I see Shyntrue also..it just seems like so many new names without avatar or siggy pics I just don't know them..I feel better thanks for coming out to say "Hi"..

    fingers crossed for you this month!!!

    "Onward"--CathyMD Waiting since 07/5/2011 for our forever child! Yep we are adopting!
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  • Oh Baze! I'm still here!

    I'm hoping Cat and Xine don't leave us for greener pastures just yet!

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  • Well, I'm sorta new, but I'll be here for at least another month, methinks. Smile
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  • I am going to be her forevah.  Or at least, so it seems.  I was here when the board started with DD (23 cycles), and I may be here in two years waiting for the next one too.  Feeling your pain.  Great people on this board though.
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  • I for one am going nowhere. Nowhere I tell you! They'll have to drag me off this board forceably to remove me.

    In fact, I might be still posting away from my bb during labor, feet in the stirrups, while the doctor says "Cathy PLEASE put the blackberry down!"

    So there :)  And you all will get KU soon too. So THERE!

    Now that said, September is a horrendously busy time for me at work so I am a bit scarce. But otherwise, here I ammmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.

     

  • I'm still here, and will be for at least the next 4 months! I know how you feel.
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  • I'm still here Baze!   Our time will come!!!!!

    BTW, regulars who are KU, I am so happy you are all sticking around.  I can use all the support I can get.  And, it would make me really sad if you all just disappeared.

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  • I'm new to this board but I feel the same way about the other board that I have been on for about 9 months.  I don't recognize anyone anymore.

    Sorry :(

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  • I can understand how you feel.  As a newer person, I don't want to be here anymore than you, believe me ;-)  Here's hoping that all of our stays are short. 
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  • I hear you.

    I have, sadly, been on the TTTC board since it started over 2 1/2 years ago.

    It is hard to see everyone move on.. even though you are happy for them.

    And while you welcome new people, there is just a special bond with ladies that you started with.

    I am a newbie... and I take no offense- I really do understand. 

    If it makes you feel any better... I have a feeling I am going to be here for a long time ;) 

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  • Baze, I sent you a PM. ?I am still here, just on a break.
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  • Don't be sad :)   I've been here at least 1.5 yrs but don't post all that often.  Most of the people I remember have moved on already too.  I also lurk/post occasionally on TTTC. 

  • **raising hand**  I'm here...still. 
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  • Hey Girl...I'm still here any probably will be for a while.  According to our post counts we probably started around the same time.  I've trolled arouond on other boards, but really never post anywhere but here. 

    I totally understand what you mean about ladies leaving us...I hope they stick around!!! 

    If PG+35'ers read this I just want them to know that their success doesn't make me sad at all...it gives me GREAT HOPE!!!

    We love you all!!!

  • Oh, BAAAAAAZZZZEEEEE!

    :::raises  hand:::::

     

    Present and accounted for!

    I've been off a lot over the past two weeks, for good reasons and sad ones, but I am so SO still here. And, if DH and I manage to beat the odds and get KU, I'm staying. And if we get to the point where we stop TTC and start adoption....well, I'll still stay, if you ladies will have me.

  • Me too!  I'm not feeling so optimistic, so I'm thinking I will be here a while!  And BTW I was just thinking the same thing the other day.  So glad those with BFPs are sticking around for us 'old-timers'!
  • Just had to post too...  I'm a super-old-timer even though not many of you may recognize me!  I've been on this board for about two years.  I don't post often anymore because my "friends" who I recognized are all either on "Pregnant after 35" or even now "Parenting after 35!" 

    I stopped posting for awhile for my own sanity (was becoming obsessed with checking the board!) and then when I returned, I didn't recognize anyone anymore.  :( 

    You are all such a nice group of ladies though and I'm glad I still feel comfortable posting here on occasion!

    No offense, but after 2 years and 25 cycles, I'm ready to leave the board actually!  :)  I'd still check in on occasion though!  I just keep day-dreaming about the day I can post my BFP finally!  :)

  • I know I'm fairly new and didn't post that much while I was here, but I check the boards nearly every day, and this is the first board I visit because I'm always hoping and praying that someone here has good news.  I'm still pretty quiet, but I AM cheering all of you on!!! I am hoping that ALL of you get to "leave" someday soon because you all got KU!
  • Hoping for BFP's for everyone!  If we get them though, we have to be sure to come back & check in on occasion.  I'm always glad to hear when someone on here gets a BFP & always glad to hear from them when they check in w/ us......  I even lurk on Preg35 to check in on them....

    stirring up more BFP dust for everyone!

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  • We don't want to leave you behind.  In all actuality, I will be checking back in frequently to cheer you all on because you have been such a huge support for me!
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    I hear you.

    I have, sadly, been on the TTTC board since it started over 2 1/2 years ago.

    It is hard to see everyone move on.. even though you are happy for them.

    And while you welcome new people, there is just a special bond with ladies that you started with.

    I am a newbie... and I take no offense- I really do understand. 

    If it makes you feel any better... I have a feeling I am going to be here for a long time ;) 

       Ditto what Smillee said here.  Im new here and dont take offense to your post at all.  I completely understand. 
    And - Smilee, I think you are wrong, your upcoming FET is going to work!  and you will be also posting  on the Preg. after 35 board
  • I'm still here too!

    I know what you mean, though.  I took a TTC break this summer, and when I came back, a lot of folks had gone and there were so many new people!  It's nice to meet some new people, but I miss those who have moved on.  I'm glad the KU ladies are sticking around!

  • I have been posting here for exactly a year and TTC another 6 months prior to that. I hope that I can extend the same kindness that older posted extended to me when I first posted.

    Recently I lurked on the Pregnant after 35 and was happy to see some of the people who first supported me on this board have gone on to not just get BFP but to have healthy babies!  

  • I'm still here too! The thought of leaving this board never even crossed my mind. I'm going to be sticking around here for a long time so I can see all of your BFPs. You have all been a huge source of support and strength for me and I couldn't imagine not continuing to do that for all of you.  We have a BFP storm still brewing  ::baby dust to all::
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  • I'll weigh in too. Not around every day- blocked at work, but I try to post when I can. One of these days I'll get around to reading up on how to post siggy pics; as soon as DH quits asking me how much longer I'm going to be online.

    I'm also about to start some diagnostic testing, so I'll update you ladies with that.

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