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I don't usually get upset

When other people announce there pregnancies. But a teenage girl I know just found out she's pregnant. She is homeless, does drugs and is an alcoholic. She is in no position to have a child. At all. And I just can't help but be angry and jealous that she is so lucky to be pregnant and have a baby. I just can't bring myself to congratulate her or say anything positive to her. So I'm just not going to say anything at all.

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  • It upsets me and I don't even know here.  Maybe the baby will help her turn her life around?

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  • I know what you mean.
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  • I know it's hard :(  but you know you wouldn't rather be in her position.  That's rough.
  • image KaliChick:
    It upsets me and I don't even know here.  Maybe the baby will help her turn her life around?

    That's what I'm hoping. But I can't be sure. Her life goal is to be a stripper. I know if she could get clean and get her life straight she would make an excellent mother, she's a really sweet loving girl. I hope its a blessing for her and will help her make something more of herself then being an alcoholic and a stripper.

  • Oh I know.. i saw a girl on my way to work the other day.. obviously pregnant and obviously stoned out of my mind.. we can only pray for the innocent babies..

     

    edit: stoned out of HER mind not mine..

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