Hey all. So I am 99% sure my best friend will be throwing me a shower, but he hasn't said anything about it at this point. (It's early--I'm due in February.) Anyhow, my mom and several other people have asked me if I'm having a shower, and I don't know what to say. Given my due date is right after the holidays, I don't think we'd want to have it any later than the first or second weekend in November--which will be here sooner than you know it. I'd feel tacky even dropping hints to him to see if he's thinking about throwing a showerl, but I'm not sure what else to do.
Any advice would be appreciated, thanks!
Re: Awkward shower question
Thanks you guys. I'm sure it will work out--I just need to chill. (I may have my mom email him, though--that's a good idea!
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I wouldn't ask him...if he wants to do it (or anyone does) they'll offer and you can graciously accept.
Personally, if you're not due till Feb I probably would have the shower in Jan after the holidays, not in November.
I'm due late Feb and have been thinking about having the shower the very first weekend of Feb, or late in Jan bc of the holidays like you said. If you're due earlier in Feb then maybe Jan would be good for you too? Either way, don't cheat yourself out of it
You should just ask him if he thinks you should have a shower bc of the holidays and see what he says. I'd hope he would tell you for the simple fact that you don't have someone else throw it like your mom or someone.