I had my baby shower in Portland this weekend (lots of fun!), and there was a 6 week baby boy there. Of course I had to get me some baby love, but as soon as I held him I kind of froze up and got really panicked. My mom even noticed and came over to start to take the baby away, but I knew I had to get over it. I'm usually pretty comfortable holding babies, but I think holding this little guy just made it way too real. I almost started crying, thinking "Am I not ready for this?"
Please tell me you had mini freak outs before your first child was born, that way I don't feel so alone
Re: Is this normal?
I still had freak outs after she was born - it's completely normal!!!!
At around the same week mark as you, I was shopping at Target. Every baby in Issaquah must have been there at the same time. One started crying, and then they all sarted crying. I dropped my basket and put my face in my palms and started crying in the middle of the store. DH came and found me bawling. I asked him, "why are we doing this, I am not ready for this yet."
He consoled me and got me the heck out of Target! Totally normal.
The only Easter Bunny I can get behind.
Maxwell Joseph 4/09 Lucy Violet 10/12
LOVE this!