we just found out about our loss yesterday. we had chemical or miscarrage not sure at 8 weeks and 5 days im just sad and depressed and not sure how successful i will be to do it again. i joined the group for pregnant and 35 and older the woman were wonderful and supportive. but now im no longer able to associate with that group. im just very sad and angry
Re: my loss
Sorry for your loss and the pain it brings. All the feelings are normal and they seem to change sometimes by the hour. Yesterday I cried all day about everything. I cried because DH suggested having wine with dinner. I didn't want to be able to drink wine. Today was better, I still got sad over a few things but I didn't spend all day crying. You deserve to feel the way you want. This board has helped me a lot. I hope it brings you the same comfort.
I am so sorry for your loss. I totally understand the feelings of being sad and angry and the feeling of isolation.
When you are up for it the TTCAL and TTC35+ boards might be other good places to connect. No TTC pressure, just letting you know that they are out there.
I'm so sorry for your loss
Let yourself feel the emotional ups and downs - be sad and angry, and don't feel bad for being happy sometimes too - you will go through everything.
I have been comforted by these boards in so many ways - this board is amazing for the days when you are sad and need to feel the company of people who have been through what you've gone through. The TTCAL board is great for the hopeful days when you just want to look forward and be silly (see my siggy as an example
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I hope you find a place that provides you the comfort you need. ::hugs::