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House Guests @ 38 weeks

NOT a good idea!  DH's best friend, his wife and 10 month old are staying at our house for a few days.  We're currently on day 3 and they leave tomorrow.  Now don't get me wrong...I love these people and it's great to see them.  They live in Hawaii, so it's very seldom we get to spend time with them.  I'm just irritated as hell that DH ok'ed them staying with us so soon to my due date.  I'm absolutely not in the mood to be a hostess right now.  I feel horrible saying this, but it's just kind of stressing me out.  I had the entire house is tip top shape and now I feel like I'm going to have to re-do everything when they leave.  They are staying in our nursery and the baby is using our crib.  So now I get to wash and remake both beds and clean that room again too.  I feel like such a brat venting, but I'm just not up to par right now and it's driving me crazy!
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  • I don't blame you for being annoyed!  I am glad they are leaving tomorrow.  Hang in there!

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  • I don't blame you at all.  I would feel the exact same way.  We just recently had guests and the thought of cleaning out the guest room again so it will be ready for my parents in a month is driving me crazy.  I am too tired to be be making up beds in addition to keeping the house in some sense of order and working..  DH is trying to be very helpful, but his plate is full also and he doesn't have the time to be doing it either.

     We have other family members that want to come visit pre-baby and I just want to tell them to stay at a hotel, but I know that probably won't happen.  Maybe I will just go stay at a hotel:)

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  • I would be equally as annoyed! You have every right to feel that way.
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  • I would feel exactly the same way, don't feel bad. Hang in there, and I hope they are out of there soon.
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  • That would annoy me too!!  Especially the baby in the crib business...

    Before I had to let my housekeeper go, she was going to bring her new grandbaby with her to my house, and let her stay in Caroline's crib...I was not comfortable with that...but I lied and told her it was fine.  She never did bring her...and then I got laid off and had to let her go...it was kind of a relief because now that baby won't be in my baby's crib!  I hate that she and I both are out of a job...but I'm glad I don't have to deal with that situation.  Selfish, I know, but I can't help it...

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