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Back from FET#2 ET :-(

These were our last 2 frozen embryos and they were 6 celled when they were frozen.

They both survived the thaw technically, but they are now a 1 cell and a 2 cell.  So basically, we have zero chance of this working.  I'm so upset, I feel like we did so much work and spent so much money for nothing but heartache.

My RE wants to meet with me when this cycle is over and it's a for sure BFN (which it will be, I'm not holding any false hopes here) and he wants to talk to us about another fresh cycle, but I just don't know if I can do it. 

 I feel like my heart is broken.  :(

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  • I am so sorry!!!  Hug.
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  • ugh....   oh hon....   (((HUGS)))   i am so sorry!    
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  • ((HUGS)) I'm so sorry.
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  • I'm so sorry. : (

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  • ::hugs::  i'm sorry :(  i'll hold out hope for your little embies!

  • I'm sorry!  But I will remain hopeful for you.  You just never know...

    After 2 rounds of IVF & 2 rounds of FET, we were blessed with identical twin girls!
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  • sh!t. I am so so sorry!!!! that is just so unfair. ((Hugs)) I'll be hoping for a miracle for you, but I understand that you need to stay realistic.
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  • Oh man.  I'm so so sorry.  ((hugs))
  • I am so Sorry ((HUGS))
    May 06: Natural PG= m/c, July 09: TI= m/c, November 09: TI=BFN, December 09: IUI= c/p
    IVF#1: start stims 1/26; ER 2/8; ET 2/13= BFN; FET#1: May 2010= m/c *NEW CLINIC Jan 2011* IVF#2: start stims 1/12; ER 1/22; ET 1/27= BFN; IVF#3: TBD
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  • (((HUGS)))
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  • I'm so sorry ((HUGS))
    Dx: High FSH, stage IV endo, homozygous C677T MTHFR and PAI-1
    Early loss 10/08
    Lap 1/09
    IVF #1 "natural IVF" - 1 egg retrieved, missed m/c
    Tried several mini-stim cycles with no response
    Switched clinics - dx'd as carrier for Fragile X
    IVF #2 MDL protocol Jan/Feb converted to IUI, BFN
    IVF #2 take 2: Antagonist, one embie, BFN
    IVF #3: Antagonist, no fertilization
    One last ditch effort at OE IVF (antagonist with Clomid) cancelled
    DE cycle #1 Jan/Feb 2011, BFP, ectopic
    DE cycle #2 June/July 2011 - BFP
    10/28/11 Baby girl lost at 17 weeks due to pre-term labor. We love and miss you.
    DE cycle #3 June/July 2012 - BFP, twins, both heartbeats stopped, D&C
    2 frosties but don't know what's next
    FET Dec 2012: BFP! Praying this one sticks for the long haul!
  • I'm so sorry. Can they tell you what went wrong with the thaw?
    Beautiful Miracle Baby lost at 21 weeks due to pre-term labor and incompetent cervix. FET#1 BFN, FET#2 BFP, early loss. FET#3 BFN. IVF#2 BFFN. FET #4 BFP after removing bilateral hydrosalpinx and 3 months of lupron depot. Sticky Bun is here!! Image and video hosting by TinyPic Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • I'll stay hopeful for you!!  ((hugs))
    PCOS, lupus anticoagulant, MTHFR (A1298C, one copy) 2 IUIs & 1 IVF = BFN FET#1 = It's a girl! Born 7.1.10 FET#2 = c/p FET#3 = Twin girls! Born on 3.16.12 at 33w2d due to severe pre-E. After 4 weeks in the NICU they are home! Lilypie Third Birthday tickers
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  • Oh no :(  I'm so sorry the embies didn't thaw well.  I know you can't - but we will hold out hope that those little guys picked right back up after transfer.  Hang in there - I don't blame you one bit for being terribly frustrated.
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  • So sorry, that sucks!
    2.5 yrs of TTC, 6 failed IUI's (clomid then injectibles), 1 failed fresh IVF (with 27 eggs retrieved), and finally our sticky baby on FET #1 in August 2009. Baby Aiden arrived on April 24, 2010!!!! Lilypie - Personal pictureLilypie First Birthday tickers my blog
  • I am so very sorry.  (((big hugs)))
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  • I am so sorry and send you many hugs.
  • IF sucks! I'm so sorry. Sending you many ((hugs)).
  • I am so sorry.  Big hugs to you.
  • I'm so sorry.  I will be hoping for a miracle for you.  (((HUGS)))

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  • Oh no.  I'm so sorry.  You will be in my thoughts and prayers. 
  • Oh no :( I'm so sorry.  I'm holding onto hope with the rest of the pp's and will be saying prayers for your miracle. ((hugs))
  • nooooooooooooo!!!! oh sweetie, I'm so sorry. I'm so heartbroken for you too. I'm still hoping for a miracle for you though.

    grow, embies, grow!!! stick, embies, stick!!!

    (((((hugs))))

    After 5 years of TTC, 3 IUIs, 5 IVFs, 2 FETs, multiple losses and an adoption that wasn
  • I am confused-how can they now have less cells? This is such hard news sweetie...pls take care of yourself!
  • Oh no! I am just so sorry. :( How upsetting.

     

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  • I?m so very very sorry.  Enduring IVF heartaches is so very hard.  (((HUGS)))

    After 7 years of marriage and 5 unsuccessful IVFs, we have been granted the gift of adopting a baby boy, born 4/21/11.
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  • I'm so sorry :(
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  • I am so, so sorry. How dissapointing.
  • I am so sorry. ((Hugs))
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    TTC since 2008 dx PCOS & MFI
    Clomid/Femara no "O"
    IVF #1 BFN
    FET #1 cancelled for biopsy
    FET #1.2 c/p, July 2012 c/p
    IUI #1 & 1.2 canceled
    IVF #2 ER 12/1, Freeze all due to OHSS
    FET #2.1 cancelled due to DVT risk, FET #2.2 Jan 2013
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  • I am so sorry (((hugs)))

    Don't make any decisions yet as to how to proceed, the emotions can be pretty raw at this point. Take some time and follow what your heart tells you to do. You are strong, and what ever path you choose will be right for you! 

    A lot of years and a million tears finally led me to you.
    After 7 years trying to concieve, 3 failed IUIs and 2 failed IVFs, my third IVF was a success!
    My Christmas baby turned into a turkey bird! Dillon Richard was born at 34 weeks, 5 days on November 28, 2009 after 10 weeks on bedrest for preeclampsia.
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  • Oh Kat, I am SOOOO sorry.  My heart aches for you!!!!!!!!!!!
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  • I am sorry honey.

     

    We had a similar experience last november....

    it sucks.

    :(

    Hugs. 

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  • Oh no. I am so sorry. That is extremely heartbreaking.  The whole process is so exhausting. You have been through so much. I am so, so sorry.
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    Surprise, natural BFP July 2012 ended in miscarriage 9/4/12 at 10w4d
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  • I'm so sorry! I know how draining this can be.  Sending big hugs your way!

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  • I am so sorry.
    TTC since 8/07 DX - Severe MFI/azoospermia & MTHFR/ TESEs found sperm - 7/08 & 6/09/ 12/08 - IVF#1 - BFN/ 6/09 - IVF #2 - cancelled due to OHSS risk (had retrieval)/ 7/09 - FET #1 - BFN/ 9/09 - FET #2 - BFN/ 11/09 - IVF #3 with new RE cancelled twice - 10/09 & 11/09/ 1/10 - IVF #3 take 3 - BFN/ 4/10 - IVF #4 - first ever BFP on 5/13/10!!! 108 @ 10dp3dt/ 2nd beta 311!/ sono on 5/28/10 said TWINS!!!! Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
  • I'm so sorry :(  That is such heartbreaking news.  ((Hugs))  I will pray for a miracle for you.  Take care of yourself.

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  • I'm so so sorry. HUGS to you.
  • oh hugs for you. i'm sorry.Right Hug
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  • I am so sorry.  I am hoping they were started growing again so even though they lost cells in the thaw, you still have a chance.
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