My MIL has ALS and SIL wanted to plan a last big family vacation. MIL loves cruise so SIL booked one. DH was not going to go, but at last minute neice broke up with her boyfriend so there was a spot available. I basically went behind DH's back and made arrangements at work and got my Mom to come out here to help me with babies so DH could go - I felt he should have this time with his Mom. He brought our son so I wouldn't have all 3 by myself - but I miss them so bad & talked to my husband last night - he was stressed and mad at his family! He is pissed that our family wasn't considered at all when the original plans were made - he told his sis that we'd join them if they went anywhere in the US, but she went and booked a cruise that deported San Juan and then gives us *** for not going. (And it turned out the whole neice's boyfriend thing was a big lie - they were not going to get stuck with a ticket if DH didn't go). Sorry for the long vent without warning - I'm just lonely and sad. Luckily Babies are keeping me busy