3rd Trimester

I HATE when DH goes out these days

I used to encourage him to. Now I just get upset and lonely. He invited me out with him but it doesn't sound fun, and he's promised to drink in moderation "just in case." I'm not even sure why I hate it; I just do.

Re: I HATE when DH goes out these days

  • DH just went to Laughlin, NV for a few days without me last weekend. I was jealous, bored, upset and lonely. It's nice you're letting him go without you- he will remember stuff like that.

     I think it's normal to be upset he's going out and you aren't- perhaps having a couple of friends over and making a 'mocktail' will help?

  • I hate when dh goes out too for many reasons but he goes out often.
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  • My DH rarely goes out but I hate when he does...I get lonely, bored and just miss him!
  • here is a reason to hate that he goes out & an even better one for him to stay home:

    in 2 days you will be considered full term. according to my stepmom who is a L&D nurse, babies can come 2-3 weeks before or after their due date. so lets factor that you could pop any day now, but how about hubby/wife time before LO comes? from what i hear, thats pretty non-existant with a newborn around!!

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  • I am finding the further along I get the more I want to be with DH ALL the time. At this rate, by the time I am due, I am going to be surgically attached. I think it is an underlying anxiety thing more about DH's safety and me feeling safer around him than about anything else.
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  • Mine never goes out without me (thank goodness). I'd be so bored. What's annoying me is that he has a new video game that he has played the last 3 days for 8 hours a day (mainly night). Geekmode needs to end soon- I am bored!
  • SF is my home town! I was born there. Hello from Sonoma!

    If he is going to go out somewhere at least it is in the coolest freakin' city in the world. I've been to a lot of the world's big name cities so I can say that with some conviction. 

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  • imageJenniferTCU:
    Mine never goes out without me (thank goodness). I'd be so bored. What's annoying me is that he has a new video game that he has played the last 3 days for 8 hours a day (mainly night). Geekmode needs to end soon- I am bored!

    thus the birth of the bump obsession.

    he sits & plays video games...just bought the new madden for ps3 & i bump. lol

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  • Wait until he is out and you have a toddler to wrangle to bed first, then you will really be lonely!!

    I can't complain though, I did get a night out with my mom's group this week.

  • imageorleyl:
    I hate when dh goes out too for many reasons but he goes out often.

    I'm sorry he does that. That would really upset me.

  • imagelizrenee06:

    here is a reason to hate that he goes out & an even better one for him to stay home:

    in 2 days you will be considered full term. according to my stepmom who is a L&D nurse, babies can come 2-3 weeks before or after their due date. so lets factor that you could pop any day now, but how about hubby/wife time before LO comes? from what i hear, thats pretty non-existant with a newborn around!!

    Ditto!  Well, except for the stepmom part.

  • right now i'm encouraging SO to go out - not to get plastered of course, but go out and play golf with his buddies after work or things like that - as long as his phone is on and i know who he's with/where he'll be in case of an emergency (god, i already sound like my mom!)....but he better live it up now because these 3-4x a week golf sessions aren't going to last much longer!!
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