I'm so freakin worried all the time! Ever since I got the BFP I have done nothing but worry!! please some one tell me to stop and just relax! I'm seriouslly going to worry myself to death!!!!
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My sweet Rylee girl 8-13-2007 and my sweet Emmett man 4-13-2010
Annaleigh Willow Elise born and passed at 26 weeks 1 day
Thursday October 17th 2013 from trisomy 13
Re: will some one please tell me to just relax?
DD -- 5YO
DS -- 3YO
I keep reminding myself deep breaths I know I need to just relax. we had to tell our parents today and that made it seem more real maybe that is what is bothering me. It just doesnt seem real yet.
I have been there! I was so terrified that I didn't even tell DH I was preg the second time because I just wanted some time to soak it up and get really excited! About a week later (I didn't find out I was preg til I was 8 weeks) I was laying in bed and could feel a little bump in there! That's when I got excited! I jumped up and told DH and of course, he was excited too. It takes awhile, planned or not, to get use to the idea. It's a HUGE change in your life, ya know? Also the first ultrasound always makes it feel real and makes you really excited.
I am not going to lie though! It's a lot more work than having one! Like 3 times the work! It's not so bad though. I thought I would never leave the house the first year Syd was here, but we get out just as much! The only thing is that no one wants to babysit both of them! Lol. (Sometimes MIL will.)
So, just relax! It will all soak in in time and you will be excited! Oh, and just wait til you are like 8 1/2 months and you want to die because you are so uncomfortable! Then you will REALLY be ready for 2! ; )
Just relax! take it one day at a time!