For all the women out there who have had a m/c

abby&raul

It makes me really angry and sad to think of all the people who get pregnant, don't even want a baby. When there are tons of women who have had to go through the pain of losing a baby. I know God has a plan for all of us, but it seems at times that life really isn't fair. It makes me realize that having a baby is a miracle, because so many things have to go exactly right in order to sustain another being inside of you. My mother had two miscarriages, so I know that it can come with the territory of being a women. I only wish that miscarriages won't happen to those women who really wanted to have a baby.

Cow-girl

I agree 100%!  I have had problems with this fact all my life.  It just seems so backwards.  I have to look at a girl at church who is pg and due two weeks after I was every week.  She didnt want to get pg, it was an "accident".  But I know that God has a plan for me, thats what I have to remember..

Thanks for posting this..

sunnymel

I actually blurted this out to my RE a few months ago! It's very frustrating (espcially when you are sitting in the OB/GYN waiting room when they are running late and have to watch the parade of pg patients come through.) I tell myself the same thing as you- there's a plan and a reason for all of this. I don't know what those are (and right now I'm having a hard time appreciating it) but I'm trying really hard to stay optomistic.

My mom was right, life isn't fair sometimes

Mel

Kel&Jay

I agree.  My dad always taught me that I would appreciate the things in my life more if I had to work to obtain them.  I guess this is no exception. 

carynmp

I feel the same way.  I found out today that my baby didn't have a heartbeat and will be going in for the d&c tomorrow.  I had gone in on monday for an earlier ultrasound and they said that the heart was still beating but really slow.  This week has been the worst of my life.  I teach high school and have had so many students who have gotten pregnant on accident (some have had the babies and some have gotten rid of them).  I watched TV this week (on bed rest) and watched shows like Maury where people have had multiple babies with different guys and dont even know who the fathers are.  It seems so unfair.  But I know I need to stop worrying about other people and focus in on myself.  I wanted this baby and this pregnancy for so long.  It feels like bad things always happen to good people. I am sorry for anyone who reads this who suffered from a m/c.  I wouldn't wish this pain on my worst enemy.