Miscarrying on the floor at work

johannaknip

I have been spotting for almost two weeks and the doctor wanted me to just let the miscarriage happen. Today I felt odd and went to the bathroom. When I went to sit on the pot, everything just poured out. Sat there for 15 minutes and then had to wipe up the floor. On top of all of that, when I walked back into the office a client was sitting there holding her beautiful new baby girl. I know this is TMI, but I just needed to vent. Please let this be the end so I can move on with my life. Thank God tomorrow is Friday.

Tapsalteerie

Is there any way you can take the rest of the day off?  That is a lot to deal with and you probably should let yourself rest.

pbhennessy

I am so sorry for your loss, and for how it happened.  My thoughts and prayers are with you.

someflower6

Tapsalteerie:

Is there any way you can take the rest of the day off?  That is a lot to deal with and you probably should let yourself rest.

um, YEAH. holy cr@p, you need some time off stat! i'm so sorry you had to go through that!

johannaknip

I took all last week off, first for bed rest, then after we found out I took the rest of the week off. I have the time, but I just feel bad leaving. Which I know is stupid.

someflower6

johannaknip:

I took all last week off, first for bed rest, then after we found out I took the rest of the week off. I have the time, but I just feel bad leaving. Which I know is stupid.

well i give you permission to leave.

priya&peter

i am so sorry.  that must have been incredibly difficult to go through. I second everyone on here that said to go home if at all possible.  ((((((HUGS))))))

Kel&Jay

I'm so sorry.  You really should take the rest of the week off.  Taking care of yourself is the most important thing right now.

lax15bsu

Oh sweetie... You should go home.  That's too much to deal with, on top of trying to work.  I'm so sorry it had to happen at work.

EMZimm08

You poor thing. I'm sorry that you had to go through all of that. It's not something that you need to see, which is the hard part of a natural m/c. Take care of yourself... maybe treat yourself to something tonight or this weekend.

hugs!

 

dnagal

OMG, that is too much.  Remove thy guilt and take care of thyself.  Really.  Hugs and best wishes for a speedy physical and emotional recovery.

bebeblues

Oh, I'm so sorry. That must have been awful.  I'm so sorry for your loss.

dstar

I am so sorry.  Just rest and take care of yourself.  Don't feel bad if you need to take some more time off. 

AnnDev

Oh my god that is awful!  I am so sorry!

TheSkimmy

I'm so sorry. My first 2 miscarriages started at work. I know how horrible it can be to try to put on a happy face after something like that. Take care of yourself and rest.

mchell9

I am so sorry for what you are going through.  Sending you good thoughts...

picarona

someflower6:

johannaknip:

I took all last week off, first for bed rest, then after we found out I took the rest of the week off. I have the time, but I just feel bad leaving. Which I know is stupid.

well i give you permission to leave.

ditto.  Please go home and take care of yourself.  You and your healing are the most important things right now.  I'm so sorry that happened at work.  Please go home and rest.

Irishsapphire

I am so sorry.  I have been there where a lot of blood has come out at once at work.  I once even was at Nordstrom where I bleeding from a miscarriage and there was a baby that was crying outside my restroom stall--it was awful.  Needed to bleed in silence with my tears. 

smileychic10986

Oh my gosh, I am so sorry for your loss, and especially how that happened!  As everyone else said, don't feel bad for leaving work, it can all wait.  Take care of yourself first.

Romeo&Denise

You should go home if you can, that is a lot to deal with at work. I'm so sorry for your loss. ***HUGS***