Babymoon Dilemma

LadyJavy

DH and I are leaving for our babymoon on Saturday. The problem is, my mom was admitted to the hospital this past Sunday because she couldn't stop throwing up and was having chest pains. I can't actually go to the hospital to be with her because they don't know what is wrong yet and I can't risk catching anything because I'm pregnant. I guess I just feel terrible leaving for a vacation when my parents are going through such a tough time. I feel like I should be there for them and instead I'm taking off.

I guess I'm just looking for advice on what you would do. We can't postpone the babymoon b/c DH starts a new job the week he gets back and can't take vacation time for 3 months after he starts. We'd also lose the money we spent on airfare and our deposits for the hotel.

rapst1

Let me ask you this, what would your mom want you to do?  I'm guess she would probably want you to go and enjoy your babymoon.  Just be sure to keep a cell phone close and check in often.  Good Luck!

rebecca_cross

Keep your phone handy and make sure the hospital knows to call you if something happens, but go on your babymoon.  You will not get this kind of alone time with your husband again for a while, I am sure your mother would want you to enjoy it.