Okay so after a bunch of research DH and I have decided to do Dr. Sear's alternative vaccine schedule.
We started interviewing peditrician's and anticpated this could be a point of contention. DH did the open house and the doctor repeated several times that they follow the American Academy of Pediatrics schedule (that's fine). But if we did decide to to the alternative schedule we would have to sign some forms but he wasn't clear about it.
So I called the office today just to follow up and the receptionist told me they will NOT support an alternative schedule and I should find another ped!!!
I told her what the doctor said and that we understood the recommended schedule but def were not having the hep b vaccine in the hosptial and she said that was fine. I asked her what the big deal is and she said it "confuses things" hmmmmm.
I'm totally confused now!!
I didn't like her "attitude" but this is the peditrician that has been recommended by all of our friends.
Are you all having trouble with this?? Can they refuse to see your child if you don't do what they say?? Last time I checked there are no laws in place with how you vaccinate your child....
Re: alternative vaccine schedule moms, please enter...-
We've moved multiple times since DD was born and have therefore seen four different pedis.
The first two (combined, we saw them through DD's 9mo checkup) were fine when we told them we didn't want to vaccinate at this time. The first one gave us a bit of a talking-to about the benefits of vaccination when we first turned down the shots, but when we said we still didn't want to vaccinate, she was fine with it. The second one just asked why we didn't want to vaccinate, and left it at that.
The third was a disaster. We saw her for DD's 1-year checkup. At that point, we were actually ready to start vaccinating again -- we just didn't want to do it THAT DAY because we were leaving on a weekend trip and didn't want DD to be in pain/fussy. She read us the riot act and basically implied that we were not welcome in that practice unless we adhered to the standard vaccine schedule.
She was awful for some other completely non-vaccine related reasons as well (e.g. telling us to turn our not-quite-20-pounder forward-facing in her car seat, despite the fact that the car seat manufacturer and the law said that she needed to stay rear-facing), so we found our current pedi. She is completely supportive of whatever vaccine schedule we want to do, and has been wonderful about working with us and giving us her recommendations without pressuring us at all.
Doctors are generally in private practice, so yes, they can refuse to see your child if you don't vaccinate "their way." Anyway, do you really want to be fighting with your pediatrician's office at every well-baby visit over what you are and are not going to do?
Find a pediatrician who wholeheartedly supports alternative vaccination schedules. I think you'll find that the pediatricians who don't try to steamroll parents' preferences for their children are better doctors anyway... I know our current pedi (who is actually family practice, so all of us see her) is one of the best doctors I've ever worked with, because she takes the time to understand our daughter and our family and make recommendations based on that. Not just with vaccines. That's just the tip of the iceberg.
Mommy to DD1 (June 2007), DS (January 2010), DD2 (July 2012), and The Next One (EDD 3/31/2015)