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kinda back and with an embarassing question :-/

Mrs.BrinkMrs.Brink
in TTC After a Loss

Well embarrassing for Dh :-)

So the day of the ++ opk Dh and I went to fwp and he could quite finish. So I'm wondering if I should still count the fwp on the chart or just let it go. But technically there is some (not a lot, but some) sperm in the pre-ejaculatory fluid that could make it, so shouldn't it still count? With or without it our timing was pretty good (high if you go by ff vip).

TIA and congrats to this weekends bfp's!

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Re: kinda back and with an embarassing question :-/

  • cour10ecour10e
    I personally wouldn't count it unless he actually ejaculated. And really, if you already think you had good timing, then don't worry about it...in the end it won't matter what your chart says about FWP for that day, no matter what the result of the cycle is. But that's just my opinion :)
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  • redshoegirlredshoegirl member
    I agree - I wouldn't count it if he didn't finish. If it makes you feel any better, we had one of those times a couple of cycles ago too - DH was stressed and tired and feeling pressured and it just didn't happen. C'est la vie. And since you O'd the same day as your +OPK according to your chart, you got plenty of FWP in during the days leading up to ovulation - and those are really the more important days.
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  • irishbaby0708irishbaby0708 member

    Hi Sweetie,

    I have so been there with that. I wouldn't count it and since the rest of your timming was good any way.  By the way the month Dh and I got BFP I trigger with Ovidrel which made me had + opk that day and we didn't FWP till late the following night and the next so don't worry about opk day.  My Re alwayd told me not to do the day i got opk to save it up for when it counted.  Good Luck!!!  I'm saving a seat for you....

    10/17/2009 - Our Miracle came 10 weeks early. IF,2 MC and 1 Preemie we have our miracle.. Baby Hope 10 weeks 5days was taken from us on Dec 18, 2007. Forever with us and Forever missed. Triplets Lost baby A @ weeks, Lost Baby B at 6 weeks and lost baby Abigail at 14 weeks when she was born to little for this life..... Forever with us ....
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