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Very crabby/hormonal today

ArcticFoxArcticFox member
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I just feel overwhelmed... I hate Mondays because it's like going back to work, but I'm a SAHM.  Thing is, the house is always trashed after the weekend.  There are dishes all over the counters, dirty laundry piled up, dirt tracked in, etc etc.  DH could do a far better job of not leaving dirty dishes etc all over the place.  For once could he make things easier for me??

And then instead of getting stuff done that I need to get done for myself, (bills, work, cleaning up my things), I feel like a maid or something.

I can tell my hormones are surging though because I felt like crying this morning for no reason!  The dirty dishes etc just topped it off!

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Re: Very crabby/hormonal today

  • Augbaby2009Augbaby2009

    Try to take it easy today. We have all been at this point!

    Maybe you can wait for DH to get home from work and ask him to help you pick up the house.

    I no longer clean the house alone. I work full time so Sunday's me and my DH clean together. I'm far to big and tired to do it all by myself.

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  • Adriamichelle83Adriamichelle83 member
    lol the hormones are lovely, aren't they? Last night I sat down with a basket of laundry to fold...and DH sat down with a twinky. I just started crying. lol He panicked, and I felt like I was in that movie "The Breakup" where Jennifer Aniston yells at Vince Vaughn, "I just want you to WANT to do the dishes!!". Yeah. It's not gonna happen. But he did help me with the clothes after that break down. :) Completely normal, hun.
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  • wendylea73wendylea73

    I completely know how you feel...Saturday was my horror day!!

    It was the ONLY day my SO and I would be off from work together this entire month, and he decided to play 17 hrs of Playstation while I went shopping, did laundry, paid bills, cooked dinner, and cleaned around him. Then he didn't understand why I was being quiet and "moping" around. I cried for like an hour upstairs alone and couldn't even get to sleep until he came to bed at 3:30 in the morning.

    The next day I worked a 1/2 day and came home early because I was so exhausted. He asked me what was wrong and I explained that I felt overwhelmed and just wanted him to step up alittle (not alot...just alittle) and what did he do? Played again for another 3 hrs. After that he took me out to dinner and spent the rest of the night relaxing with me. I guess I realized that he's gonna do what he wants, but he does love me...so I chalked it up to hormones and stress. Then after incredible make up sex I slept like a baby and feel fine today :)

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