TTC After a Loss

the nice thing about O'ing...

...is that it's all done. We've given it our best shot for this cycle, so no more FWPing even if we don't feel like it, no stressing about whether I'll O early or late or on time - at this point, it just is what it is. I really like sitting back and relaxing right now, especially because I know I'll be stressing in about 2 weeks...

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  • it's so funny how when it's over you should feel less stress - and you do for like a minute . . then you realize it's the 2ww . . . but do, sit back, relax and remember you did a great job this month!
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  • I totally agree. You're worked up leading up to O b/c you want to know when it's coming, then you go crazy trying to make sure you FWP enough and in the right time frame. It's nice to be able to say okay, we're done and we'll see what happens. Although it's only a few days before we are crazy again!
  • Enjoy the next couple of days before the craziness begins!
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  • I agree after O has come & all the FWP is over you should relax. I have been doing good this 2WW I only have crazy moments, not crazy days :O) 

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  • Someone once pointed out that they dont stress in the 2ww. The first half of the cycle is the hard part and after you O there is nothing you can do! And your right. Its so true!! Good luck to you!
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  • I hear ya.  Though I think DH and I are on for tonight as well, just for good measure.  I'm already thinking about what I'll try next month...without even knowing what the results of this cycle are yet.  I guess I'm a weirdo.
     
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  • man, i really hope i o'ed. i'd feel the exact same relief!
  • Ditto!
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