Update - talked to Dr.

Jettaky

The baby is not alive. The high risk Dr. from my Dr's office called he said that it looks like the baby died at 16w 4d and that when this happens this late in a preg it is prob because there was something genetically wrong with the baby, so it was prob a blessing in disguise. He said that it is not safe to do a DNC so I would have to M/C on my own. I have an appt with my Dr. on Tuesday, hopefully I will find out more then. 

OP 

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/20420531.aspx

vmm0016

I am so sorry!  You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

sunflowergrl

I'm so sorry for your loss. T&P to you and your family.  :hugs:

JillBMama

I'm so sorry to hear. My prayers are with you.

B!tchBeckman

I was just thinking about you. I am so sorry for your loss. Stay strong- and give your Kaden a tighter hug tonight.

::hugs::

lmurphy0822

omg I'm so sorry!! Just keep thinking positive and hopefully you'll have better luck in the future. GL and sorry again

KBLT

I am so sorry! ?

jenniferhoulihan

So sorry you are in my prayers.

Johnna&Ralph

I am so sorry to hear this. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Nennifre

I'm so sorry for your loss

stace42

I am so sorry for your loss, you and your family will be in my prayers.

Brandi-104

I am so sorry!

Kismet21

I am so sorry. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.?

kp29tp26

sorry for your loss. Your in my thoughts and prayers.

rhannan

I am so sorry for your loss.

MamaS111

I am so sorry for your loss. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Breezie17

I am so very sorry for you loss.  My thoughts are with you right now.

babycooncat

I'm so sorry!

easjer05

I am so, so very sorry for your loss.

AMYfromKY

I am very sorry for your loss.

margauxlicious

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Soon2BMrsWiley

I am so sorry for your loss and will be thinking of you and your family.

Anna&Matt

I am so sorry. I cannot even begin to imagine what you are going through but I will keep you in my prayers.

speters83

I am sorry for your loss.

meclayton

You're in my prayers.

whitdog23

I'm so sorry.

megs68

There are no words that can be adequate. I am so so sorry for the loss of your baby. 

sdc06

I am so sorry, you are in my thoughts and prayers.

kimberleigh30

OMG I am so sorry to hear. ?How sad. Hang in there. ?::hugs::

mrs_sherod

OMG, I'm so sorry for your loss!  You'll def be in my prayers!

MrsRebecca

I am so sorry. Take care of yourself.

mrssmith717

I am so sorry about this. I am sure this is heartbreaking for you- you'll be in my prayers.

MilesOfSmiles

I'm in tears for you. I'm so very sorry for your loss, and will be thinking of you.