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Stressed just really need to vent

Kentuckychick_8201Kentuckychick_8201
in Babies: 9 - 12 Months
I just went to my doctor today for my surgery follow up appointment.  The doctor refused to not put me on light duty (even though I told him I am lifting my 20lb 9 month old on a regular basis so what difference did it make).  Work won't let me work on light duty so basically so far I have lost about 3 weeks pay.  Plus I have to pay back health insurance costs.  To top it all off we have incured about $1000 more of medical expenses for my surgery and we are still trying to pay off the bills for when I had DD, freaking 9 months later.  DH told me no more surgeries no more illnesses.  I told him it's not my fault and he said I know I am just stressed about money.  I said so am I and I have to live with the guilt that all of it is my fault.  He said don't feel guilty but he is so upset about it it makes me feel guilty.  The thing is the surgery was unavoidable, my gallbladder was inflammed and full of stones so I was in extreme pain.  I have cancelled my vacation from work and my trip to Ohio to help SIL move into her dorm.  There is just absolutely nothing else I can do.  I hate financial stress, even though I know probably half of this board is going through it right now.  On top of it all I am still having to deal with some of the pain of the surgery.  I am having a mad at life kind of day.  Anyways thanks for letting me vent. 
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