Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

I know it's my own fault for lurking...

I went to 1tri, and this was the very first post.

What I wouldn't give for my bump.......

 https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/20288030.aspx 

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Re: I know it's my own fault for lurking...

  • well i have no shame nor tolerate ungrateful people. So i posted a reply
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  • That totally pissed me off, I too posted a reply.  I'm sorry you had to read such ignorance.  Hugs.
    DD(9)DD(5.5)DS(3)DS(born 2/1/11) July 2006, lost a baby at 8 weeks, natural miscarriage , May 2009 lost Zoe Eliana at 17 weeks no reason known, possible under developed organs. Lost two more babies in September 2009 at 7 wks 4 days. Had myomectomy surgery to remove a large fibroid in November 2009.
  • WOW... unbelievable. I just went over and saw the last reply and my blood is BOILING. How can people be sooooo insensitive?!
  • whatever to them. i honestly don't even care what the OP thinks-- if she's too vain to gain weight, i could care less. but i think some of you ladies tried to offer a perspective-- a valid one, at that-- and i didn't like how one of those girls shrugged it off, as if it didn't apply to them because they didn't have a loss or trouble trying to concieve.

    psh. ignorant pregnant women are the BEST.

  • Jesus! I wish I hadn't clicked that. What the hell... good for you guys who replyed. I wish I could just get a enormously hugh bump right now and tons of stretch marks. What I wouldn't give. Don't go over there again though it is not pretty. Go to TTCAL
  • Wow... some people are just so ungrateful for what they have. When I think of pregnant ladies I think of girls w/ big bellies. I find it attractive! If that girl didnt want to have a belly then she should have adopted.

    I dont even care if I sound mean.. people like that just irk me.

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  • Wow I should have never clicked there. I just finished with my natural miscarriage this morning (passed it all, awful!) and then to read that. Stupid stupid stupid me. I couldn't not reply, so I did. People just need to be grateful for what they have!!!!!
  • I replied too.  I was more ticked off at the one poster who said "Just because people had losses or problems conceiving..." Yeah, I had both thanks. 

    TTC #1 since 7/08 After 3 years, 2 losses, 3 rounds of IUI, and one round of IVF, we finally have our dream come true! DS born 7/30/11

    TTC #2 off and on since 7/12

  • What I wouldn't do to have my bump just starting to form around now!!  It makes me so sad to see how ungrateful people can be about those kind of things.  Hopefully none of those ladies will have to experience what we have, but maybe it would give them a new perspective on life and gaining weight!!!!

    How ignorant.

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