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Poll: What was your first impression of your DH when you met him?

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Started TTC in August 2007, 1st BFP March 2008, natural m/c April 11th, 2008. 2nd BFP 1/1/09, diagnosed with possible ectopic 1/16/09, got Methotrexate shot 1/18/09. On Bromocriptine to balance my high prolactin levels (thanks to tiny brain tumor) that messes with my body. Long cycles and unexplained infertility suck monkey balls! July 09- Clomid 50mg HCG shot TI prog. supps= negative. August 09- Clomid 50mg HCG shot IUI prog. supps=negative. September 09- Clomid 50mg HCG shot b2b IUI's prog. supps: negative. October 09- Clomid 100mg HCG b2b IUI's prog.supps: negative. November 09- cycle cancelled due to cyst.... IVF is next.... December 09- Beginning of IVF, Lupron, BCP's Jan-Feb 10- IVF retrieved 6 matured eggs, all fertilized, 2 transferred, 1 lost, 3 frozen= BFP! betas: 8dp5dt (13dpo)= 176, 11dp5dt (16dpo)= 728! October 2010: Boy/Girl twins born. Now... trying to get fit!

Re: Poll: What was your first impression of your DH when you met him?

  • I thought, "hmm, tall and lanky, just what I like!"  

    Seriously.

    I like tall and lanky guys. :) 

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  • Very cute, but very different from "my type" which is the athletic type.  Not anymore.  LOL.
  • What's funny is that DH and I don't remember ever meeting for the first time. We were friends in college and afterwards for a few years before we started dating. However, there was one weekend when he came to visit me and some other friends that things just clicked. Instant attraction ... with someone I'd known for 3-4 years.
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  • that he was a ***! lol we worked at the same car dealership and he never said much but always had this look on his face "move or I will kill you" so I was pretty much freaked out by him for awhile then we went out for a coworkers birthday and he came at first I was like "great this will be fun" and then he got a couple beers in him and it was the best night!! he started talking and telling jokes! we all had so much fun! We were sitting next to eachother but then I moved to sit next to the girls and he thought it was bc I didnt want to sit near him and wasnt into him but really I just wanted to whisper bout him to the girls Embarrassed lol If he wouldnt have came out that night we probably wouldnt be married right now.
  • i wanna lick him like a lollipop!
  • I met my husband in 2nd grade!  I thought he was soooo cute!  We reconnected 14 years later online!  And then he was even hotter!
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  • Well DH was totally not my type but he had something that I was drawn to. I thought he talked way too much, actually he still does lol
    Started TTC in August 2007, 1st BFP March 2008, natural m/c April 11th, 2008. 2nd BFP 1/1/09, diagnosed with possible ectopic 1/16/09, got Methotrexate shot 1/18/09. On Bromocriptine to balance my high prolactin levels (thanks to tiny brain tumor) that messes with my body. Long cycles and unexplained infertility suck monkey balls! July 09- Clomid 50mg HCG shot TI prog. supps= negative. August 09- Clomid 50mg HCG shot IUI prog. supps=negative. September 09- Clomid 50mg HCG shot b2b IUI's prog. supps: negative. October 09- Clomid 100mg HCG b2b IUI's prog.supps: negative. November 09- cycle cancelled due to cyst.... IVF is next.... December 09- Beginning of IVF, Lupron, BCP's Jan-Feb 10- IVF retrieved 6 matured eggs, all fertilized, 2 transferred, 1 lost, 3 frozen= BFP! betas: 8dp5dt (13dpo)= 176, 11dp5dt (16dpo)= 728! October 2010: Boy/Girl twins born. Now... trying to get fit!
  • I thought he was cute--tall and handsome.  He looked better in person than in the pictures on Match.com. I kinda thought he was a party guy, and he was unobtainable.  He was --it is called a red dress and a cute smile. :  )
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  • DH is tall and fit build...not my usual.  Actually the first hockey playing bf i've ever had.

    But what really got me was when he open his mouth to speak......DEEP voice made me melt!

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  • I thought what a jerk, but I will totally sleep with him.
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  • I was dating his best friend B the first time I met H (long complicated story), and I thought "wow, B has hot friends!".
  • Wow! What a hottie!!! I thought he was quite a few years older than me, and probably involved w/someone already. We worked together, and someone noticed him checking me out one day and came told me.....I figured he'd be a "player" or "jerk".....a co-worker randomly gave him my #, (w/o asking me, I might add!) and out of the blue we ended up going out! Hooked a sweetie!!! (I've had a good snuggle day at home w/my hubby and dd!!! A good rainy, snuggie day!!! )
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    I thought, "hmm, tall and lanky, just what I like!"  

    Seriously.

    I like tall and lanky guys. :) 

    Me too! My hubby is 6'8". 

  • BF and I have 'known' each other online for 11 years (since 1999 - I was 14, he was 17). We liked the same music and found each other through some random old chat room kinda thing.. we stayed in touch quite frequently, and there were different points in time when we crushed on each other. However... him being in Australia, and me in Canada, we both just shrugged it off and carried on talking about the music that we liked... introducing local indie bands to each other etc.

     Flash forward to Oct 2007 - he was planning a trip up to the States with a buddy of his. Buddy got called into the Aussie airforce and had to cancel the trip. He was bummed, so I said change your ticket and come up to Canada instead.. my room mates and I will show you around.

    So.. from the time I actually physically met him, my heart stopped. I knew he was the one for me.

    We've been together since, and are in the process of getting him Canadian citizentship.

     

    And there's my nerdy, online love story.

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  • "It will be nice to have another younger person in the office." I actually booked his flight from Florida to Seattle to meet his new boss, who I worked with.  
  • I thought he was smoking hot and I wanted to f*ck him.  I wasn't sure I would like him for much else.  How wrong I was!
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  • Cute, but shy (I caught him looking at me and said hi, and he got all embarrassed and looked the other way for a minute). Also nerdy, which is just the way I like 'em lol.
  • I thought "uhmmm tall, nice eyes, perfect teeth, muscular, shy=A+"
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  • I thought he was nice, but more of a "friend boy."  He liked me, but I was all "Oh, I don't know...  He's just so nice"  Then my roommate decided she liked him and was going to after him, and I got all jealous!  So I decided I better act before it was too late!  I guess it worked, b/c now I love him more than anything!
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  • DH and I started off as "pen pals" about 12 years ago while he was going through boot camp and I was starting my first semester in college. I LOVED reading his letters. He came off funny, smart and witty. We met face-to-face a few months later and I realized how much of his personality came through in the things he wrote. The rest is history.
  • I thought he was cute and he seemed nice enough, but I wasn't really interested.
  • The first time I met him?  (9th Grade)  I thought he was a tall skinny dork, but I dated him for a year anyway. 

     

    Flash forward 10 years.  Found him on Myspace.  

     

    I couldn't believe how chubby he had gotten and was amazed that being chubby actually made him incredibly handsome....some ppl just need some fat.  

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  • Im pretty sure my exact words were "what a *** douchebag, I cant belive you are dating that guy".
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