My husband and I have had a very long and emotional road on our way to our BFP. We had discussed that we would tell people after our first Dr. appt on Aug 13. Well that doesn't include my mom. I wanted to tell her right away but my husband had unexpected nasal sugery on Friday to fix a broken nose. Well, I have been occupied with him and he has been out of it b/c of the meds so I wanted to wait until he was coherent enough to be there with me when we tell her. The problem is that she knew when we had the IUI so she is expecting my period or BFP! I want to tell her in person but last night on the phone she asked if AF arrived. I froze and ended up lying to her and saying no not exactly but I would be calling the doc later this week. I'm not even sure what that was supposed to mean! So this afternoon on the phone she tells me that she had a dream last night that she saw me at 8.5 mo preg and didn't know and asked me how long I was going to keep it from her. That's creepy! She's on to me! I'm hoping my hubby feels better by Friday so we can go tell her.
Re: My mom is on to me!
So when my period was due, my mom was asking and I just kept putting her off by telling her all the HPT came back neg but no period & I had a Dr. apt for 6/30. All was true except HPT came back as BFP. But by telling her no period but I had a Dr apt, it kept her off my back for 2 weeks.
On a side note, Aug 13th isn't that far away, I hope things work out for you & when you do tell her shes surprised!