My introduction

sarahnichols

Hi everyone,

I just found out at my 11 week appointment yesterday that I have a blighted ovum.  This is my second miscarriage.  After the first one it took us a year and a half to get pregnant again.  Then we were elated that we made it to 11 weeks with this pregnancy and are now completely devestated again.  I will have to have a D&C in a couple days. I know it's irrational but I feel like I've let my husband, my parents, and my in-laws all down because everyone was so excited.   I know God has a plan for everything but sometimes it just doesn't seem fair.  I know a lot of you can relate and it's good for me to say this to someone. So anyway, there it is, I'm glad I have this board that I can come to. 

Swede25

I'm very sorry that you are having to experience this.   I had the exact same feelings of letting everyone down and can completely relate.  I have to keep reminding myself that I wouldn't be put through these situations and struggles if it was thought I couldn't handle it, but at the same time, I don't want to be one of those people!

priya&peter

I am so sorry for your loss.  Your feelings are completely normal although I know that doesn't make them any easier to handle.  I wish so much whenever someone joins us that there was something I could say to make them feel better.  Just know you are in my thoughts.  (((((hugs)))))

smileychic10986

I am so sorry for your and your husbands loss(es).  I had those same feelings also, of letting everyone down, and feeling like I must have done something wrong to make my pregnancy end the way it did. 

Just know, that you did nothing wrong and this is not your fault. All of our little angels are in heaven now watching out for us. 

Once again, I am so sorry you are having to join us here, but we do welcome you with open arms.  If there is anything you need to say, or vent about you can let it all out here.  We know what you are going through.

((((((((Big Hug to you)))))))))))

vkbaby09

I'm so so sorry for your two losses.  I hope you find as much comfort and support as I have on this board. 

EMZimm08

The exact same thing happened to me the first time I miscarried. I was almost 12 weeks, and then I started to bleed... I couldn't wrap my head around the idea that it took my body that long to realize that there was no baby. i'm so sorry for your loss. We are all here for you and can relate to what you're going through. Trust in God that he knows what he is doing - he has better things in store for you. I know it may be hard to believe that now, but it's true. ::hugs::