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Need good thoughts- might be miscarrying

I just spent 5 hours in the ER, three of those with a freaking catheter in. All to find out they don't know what's going on. My betas are lowish, but that could be because I ovulated late. They saw a sac in the transvaginal u/s, but no other details to help set my mind at ease. It's still so early that it's just hard to say.

The doc said my cervix is closed, which is good, but I am bleeding an awful lot. He said I have a 50/50 chance of miscarrying at this point. Even though he said that, he didn't seem optimistic.

So. Now we wait. I could use any good thoughts, prayers, vibes, anything you could send my way. I'm trying to stay optimistic, but I'm exhausted, my head is killing me, and I'm preparing myself for the worst just in case.

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    (((good vibes)))

    Sorry you are dealing with this :-(?

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    Oh honey, (((HUGS))).  I'll keep you in my prayers!
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    ZenyaZenya member
    Thinking about you. I have been there and know just how awful it is. hugs to you!
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    (((((hugs)))))
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    Oh sweetie. I am sooo soooo  SOOOOOO praying that your little skittle stays put.

     

    ((HUGS))

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    Good thoughts headed your way.  ((hugs))
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    Prayers for you and tiny baby femme
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    Keep thinking positive.  This happened when I was pg with Halee.  ((hugs))

     

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    (((HUGS)))

    I'm so sorry, femme! Good thoughts, vibes, prayers, anything you can think of...coming your way.

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    Sending good thoughts & ((hugs)).
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    I'll say a prayer for you...good luck.
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    Lots of prayers and good thoughts your way!

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    ((hugs))  I hope all is well - sorry you are going through this.
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    Oh no, I am so sorry.  Hoping for the best!
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    Sending you lots of good thoughts. Hugs.
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    ((HUGS))
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    Oh I'm sorry!  Sending all the good thoughts, prayers and ((hugs)) to you that I can!
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    I am sorry! Do you know when you ovulated? Was it more than a week off? It sucks....I have been there 2 times. If you have any questions let me know! (((((HUGS))))))
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    ::positive thoughts:: I hope things turn out okay.
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    Sending lots of sticky love your way!!!
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    Sending good thoughts...hope everything is okay.
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    ::hugs::

    I'm so sorry Femme, and hope everything turns out for the best. 

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    Good vibes!   I hope everything is okay!
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    I am so sorry!!!  Lots of good thoughts coming your way that everything works out fine!
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    Hope all is well.
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    Oh no Femme!  I'm praying.  Let me know if I can do anything at all to help!

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    Thanks everybody. I just wish I knew one way or the other. I'm getting crampier, so IDK. I'm losing hope. I need to go to bed, honestly.
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    I'm so sorry, Femme.  I saw your earlier post and have been thinking about you this afternoon.  Stay off your feet as much as possible.  I won't tell you to relax, because I know that's impossible.  Good luck - I hope it's nothing.
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    I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. I'll be thinking of you and hoping for good news. xoxoxoxoxo
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    Oh, L!  I am soooo sorry you are going through this!  I have been there twice and don't wish that pain on anyone.  I will hold you and your little bean in my thoughts and prayers and pray that he/she snuggles in tight for a healthy pregnancy.
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    Oh, hon.  You're in my thoughts and prayers.

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    Oh femme, hugs. Keep us posted, OK?
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    Good thoughts and vibes coming your way!!  ((HUGS))
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    Oh no...I am NOT willing to believe that.

     oh femme...I am so so sorry youre dealing with this. fwiw, there was nothing but sac in my 6 week 5 day u/s either.

    I am so hoping this turns out for the best for you.

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    (((hugs)))  I'm so sorry you have to wait and worry.  Please keep us posted!
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    Prayers and good thoughts coming your way!
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    I was just about the same place in my pregnancy when I started bleeding a lot.  They gave me 50-50 odds as well.  DD is now 20.5 months old, so you never know.  I was SURE I was mc-ing.  I had a couple horrible very sharp pains that doubled me over and the bleeding went on for close to 3 weeks.  it was variable from light to heavy and from pink to bright red to brown.  They sent me home and put me on bedrest and pelvic rest for 3-4 days.  They had me keep my feet propped up, etc.  My employer told me to add a few days to the bedrest and not come in to work.  All told I was probably in bed for a week.  Anyway ... it worked, she stuck, and the bleed resolved itself eventually.  Good luck to you!  I really hope that you have the same result!
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    oh, god. So sorry you're dealing with this Femme. Sending good thoughts your way...
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