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jeng329

I don't think it's been posted yet.

and....go!

runnergirl2008

I posted awhile back about my friend with IF who is now pregnant and how I was struggling with trying to get our friendship back on track since she basically abandoned me while I was pg for her own preservation, which I understand.?

I'm trying. I'm really really trying, but I don't know if it'll ever be the same and I don't know what to do about that. I guess we'll both just adapt and go ahead with what remains.?

We're going to MIL's (Texas) Wednesday. I'm excited for Sam to meet FIL but that's about it. It's going to be a looooooooonnnnnnggggggggg week. ?

prettyshoes

My best friend's husband is getting sentenced today for doing something really, really bad. I love my friend and I don't want to see her life ruined but I hope he goes to jail for a long, long time. And I hope it's really awful for him there.

katie_cj

Instead of napping when Jacob does...I've been bumping and playing Farmville on facebook.

Jacob has been an angel the past couple of days...but I haven't admitted it to FI.  FI thinks that I spend my entire day on my laptop, which I vehemently denied...but it's true.  I basically spend the day on my laptop.  I should make more of an effort to go on walks with Jacob, but the thought just exhaust me. 

Jackswife123

Now that Andrew can entertain himself for a bit I have the time to clean and pick up around the house, but I rarely do. ?Sometimes I tell DH what a tough day it was so he doesn't know how lazy I`m being.

Also, I`m totally gonna do some online shopping today and I really shouldn't.?

TrinaKay

I have a friend that basically abondoned me after I had my daughter. She started partying and smoking pot. I think it was out of jealousy, because she couldn't get pregnant, which I totally understand, but those things are not going to help you get pg.

Anyway- we have been semi-talking because she has decided to try to get pregnant again. She is coming over today, part of me hopes it goes well because we were good friends, the other part of me hopes it doesn't just so that I will have closure on this relationship and know that I tried. :le sigh:

jen_and_scott

I am lucky enough to be a SAHM and enjoy it most days. Monday - Wednesday, I would have traded spots with someone flipping hamburgers somewhere in a heartbeat. I was mad at C, then got mad at myself for thinking that.

J&MsMom

Lack of sleep is making me a crappy mom to my 2 yo.  I am really short with her and don't play with her as much as I should. It sucks because summers are our time to spend quality time together. 

wifeypooh

I hate whe DH stops by his parents house with M on his way home from picking her up after work. Part of it is because his parents don't make an effort to see her and expect us to come to them for visits. Part of it is that I don't trust my FIL to play with DD (I swear one day he is going to dislocate a joint). So, yesterday I lied to DH and told him I had a horrible day and asked him to bring her home immediately since I was leaving work and wanted to see her. Oh and I have the thought in the back of my mind to freeze her milk in smaller increments so that M doesn't get sent home with milk in a bottle. That way DH has to go straight home to feed her.  Yep, I am a biitch.

NatPhoto09

All the "cool" 5 month mommas have already moved to the 6-12 board and it sort of upsets me. I don't know why I care but I do.  They are too cool to hang out w/ the 0-6 board.

Califragilistic

DH is picking up/starting personality traits that his dad does that I HATE.

Califragilistic

katie_cj@hotmail.com:

  I should make more of an effort to go on walks with Jacob, but the thought just exhaust me. 

me toO!!!!!!!!!!

Mrs.C042807

I'm glad we're going to a wedding and DS is staying with my parents this weekend.  It means a full night of uninterrupted sleep. 

FirefightersBride

I hit my poor DS' head on banister of the stairs the other day (on accident of course)   Didn't phase him though.

blendedfammama

We are taking DS to visit DH's grandparents today...they haven't met him yet.  I'm dreading it.  Mostly because SIL is going.  It could be worse, MIL could be going...but I hate both of them equally so...I don't want to go.  I feel terrible they haven't met him yet though.

mykatydee

We've been talking about when to TTC again since we brought DS home...yet on Wed. nite I had a nervous break down and just cried for an hr while he refused to go back to sleep...I seriously considered never having another one, and couldnt believe i was thinking of having 2 so close....I confess this only b/c 1) i've had more sleep and know that I was just tired so I'm back to wanted them close together and 2) I've had more sleep and realize that compared to my cousin that had a inconsolably colicy baby for the 1st 3 months (and now that her LO is 2 they are expecting their next!!) that I really have it easy, DS is such a good baby

I too spend way too much time on my laptop instead of sleeping or cleaning...right now for example i should have gone back to sleep after feeding LO an hr and a half ago, instead I payed bills and got on here...by the time I'm actually ready to go to sleep he will be ready to eat again....

(this one is really awful) I have thought on several occassions since getting pregnant that I want to get rid of my dog.  He is good with the baby, but is still very jealous.  The most recent antics have been getting into the trash constantly, attempting to steal food of plates, throwing temper tantrums in his kennel in the morning begging to be let out (he can get outside so its not a potty issue), and chewing on a bottle that he got for who-knows-where....

TimsMayBride

Baby flower headbands look ridiculous.  I don't know how anyone could put that on their daughter and think it's cute.  I guess it's supposed to make them look more feminine but it just looks odd to have a flower larger than her face strapped to her head.  I also think tutus look stupid.

Ridgebackmom

While DD is sleeping I'm on the computer instead of cleaning or exercising.

My DH works so much that when he is home I get mad at him for not doing any housework (w/o asking). He works 2 jobs that should be enough. He doesn't get that being a SAHM is hard work, it really is.

I secretly (not really a secret) hate my ILs..sorry!

Ridgebackmom

Candi&Nate:

We are taking DS to visit DH's grandparents today...they haven't met him yet.  I'm dreading it.  Mostly because SIL is going.  It could be worse, MIL could be going...but I hate both of them equally so...I don't want to go.  I feel terrible they haven't met him yet though.

He's really cute! Don't feel bad, my ILs live around the corna (from Wooosta) lol and they never see DD and when they do it's sooo annoying. My MIL just hugs and smells her its gross bc she's a smoker and I can't stand her holding her sooo close.

pretty_helmet

i obsessively look up lyrics to songs just so that when i am singing them to DD i don't look like an idiot in front of DH by not knowing the song.

in the same vein i forgot some of the lines to "hush little baby" and made up my own lyrics.  one of the rhyming lyrics i used was "porn".  christ on a bike i'm a moron.

Gramyson

TimsMayBride:

Baby flower headbands look ridiculous.  I don't know how anyone could put that on their daughter and think it's cute.  I guess it's supposed to make them look more feminine but it just looks odd to have a flower larger than her face strapped to her head.  I also think tutus look stupid.

i said this all at one point...and then i had a girl. 

TimsMayBride

Gramyson:

TimsMayBride:

Baby flower headbands look ridiculous.  I don't know how anyone could put that on their daughter and think it's cute.  I guess it's supposed to make them look more feminine but it just looks odd to have a flower larger than her face strapped to her head.  I also think tutus look stupid.

i said this all at one point...and then i had a girl. 

LOL, I guess we'll see if my next one is a girl.

blendedfammama

pretty_helmet:

In the same vein i forgot some of the lines to "hush little baby" and made up my own lyrics.  one of the rhyming lyrics i used was "porn".  christ on a bike i'm a moron.

I have done the same thing except mine NEVER rhyme and I usually use iPod, quad, dirtbike, PSP, xBox, etc.  Spoiled much?

Amber3535

I really really want to be pregnant again. We have decided we are waiting 3+ years to try again but I constantly think about another one. I loved being pregnant and I have really enjoyed being a mom lately. I would love a little accident

FyshWyfe

I am a jealous wife. ?I don't nag, I don't blow up his phone, and I don't question him when he gets home after being out in the evening, but the entire time he's gone I have a knot in my stomach. ?I found myself thinking last night (and I know this if F*ed up) that I'm glad he's going to be a SAHD so I don't have to share him with anyone. ?Now I think I need counseling or something, cuz that's just sh!tty. ?He needs and deserves to have friends too. ?I'm a jerk. ?

NatPhoto09

FyshWyfe:

I am a jealous wife.  I don't nag, I don't blow up his phone, and I don't question him when he gets home after being out in the evening, but the entire time he's gone I have a knot in my stomach.  I found myself thinking last night (and I know this if F*ed up) that I'm glad he's going to be a SAHD so I don't have to share him with anyone.  Now I think I need counseling or something, cuz that's just sh!tty.  He needs and deserves to have friends too.  I'm a jerk.

having a knot in my stomach every time my DH would go out would suck! 

katlizabeth

My FIL drives me crazy.  He means well, but I hate his advice.  No, you are not a child development expert FIL, and no, I will not let my baby CIO at 7 weeks.  And most of the rest of your advice is not helpful.  The confession is that b/c he gives me such advice, almost EVERY SINGLE time he says something, it grates on my nerves, no matter what it is. 

jillchrispy

I have to go on my first overnight business trip on Monday since DS was born, and while I am sad to be away from him I cannot wait. I plan on going to sleep as soon as I get into my hotel room and am so excited that I can get 8-10 hours of sleep in!

Also, this morning I couldn't understand why DS wouldn't fall back to sleep after his 4:30 bottle. Fast forward to 6:30 and I find out that it's because his diaper was full of poop. I felt so terrible!!

Last one: I don't like my MIL but will never tell DH that. ?

Rhapsody527

Sometimes I get so frustrated during nap time, I just want to let DD CIO. 5 minutes later I feel like a horrible mom for even thinking it.

WaitingForMyMiracle

I'm thinking about breaking DH's Xbox because he would rather play that than take care of his son.

britti<3

 I have more than one

1.There is this girl who I was friends with in high school who is a complete sh!thead junkie now. She had a baby a year ago in June and has never had custody of him. She always tried to get me to help her out in getting him back but I always refused. I cut off ties with her completely but she e-mailed my 15yr old sister the other day on myspace saying how our family is the biggest pos she ever knew and my brother shouldn't have been such pvssy and killed himself when he said he was going to.

I called the sheriff department and her caseworker telling them that they are heroin dealers (which is true).  Their house was raided 2 days ago.

It made me so mad when she said that about my brother. He's been on suicide watch 3 times and for her to even say something like that is disgusting.

2. I think my FIL is completely disgusting and he still hasn't held Bri. DH and I always take her from MIL before he gets a chance. 

3. Bri has been refusing to nurse lately. She will latch on maybe once or twice a day but that's it. I haven't told DH because I don't want him to tell MIL. I don't want there to be an excuse for her to watch the girls.

4.I think I'm better than my IL's. They gross and I hate going anywhere in public with them. 

5. I have no sex life anymore and I'm ok with it. I feel bad for DH but not bad enough to do something about it and actually give in. I stay up past him claiming I can't sleep and hang out in the living room on the internet but am dead tired the next day. Last night I stayed up until 2am so I didn't get the "i want to have sex" moves from DH. I think I'm so terrified of his vasectomy not working because I DO NOT want another child.

 

 

JLS0320

7 yrs ago DH (then boyfriend) and I broke up because I wanted to date a friend of ours, we had been flirting hot and heavy and I had cheated on DH w/ him and wanted to take it further (DH knows all of this). My FFFC is that I still think about this guy frequently and even still fantasize about him, I haven't seen him in over 5 yrs but can't get him out of my mind. I got back w/ DH because I loved him so much more than this other guy, but this friend and I were so close and it was amazing the way he made me feel (the sex was bad though). I haven't told anyone this ever

CalinsBride

I think I'm only BFing my son because we can't afford formula.

sarahkatherine8

1) If I haven't found a new nursing job that is no holidays, M-F, and no longer wiping ass and working as a floor nurse before Christmas gets here...I am seriously considering dropping my status to casual just to avoid working the holiday AND most of all...avoid DS going to MIL's house without me taht day. That is how much I dislike this woman spending time with my son.

I know it's pathetic and a little crazy.

2) I really wish I'd been more proactive about finding a different, better job during my maternity leave. I've been applying now, but I go back to work in 3 weeks and dread it. I also dread the thought of DH being alone with DS...not because he's a bad dad. He takes really good care of him. But because I dread the thought of him taking him out places (like MIL or BIL's house) without me there to supervise.

I've gotta work through these trust issues. I keep telling DH I act like this b/c DS was in the NICU for two weeks & that I'm really possessive of him. I'm starting to wonder if something else is going on inside me that I need to get figured out