Parenting after a Loss

Vent - Not really having a good birthday

So this is going to be totally whiny..but I am just not in a good mood today.

So last night we were supposed to go out to dinner and the movies for my birthday.. Well I had the GB attack, so dinner was scrapped and i ended up vomiting twice on the way to the movie. The movie was good....but we came home to a cranky fussy baby.. Then she was up like 3 times last night..

Today has been even worse. DH didn't give me ANYTHING.. I guess he is picking up my gift now on his way to work.. but he could at least have gotten a card... DD is an absolute fuss butt today.. and is having one of her I don't want to nurse days.. We had to go to lunch with MIL and SIL and MIL was really annoying.. and the ONE thing I asked her to get me is a gift certificate to get pics of DD done somewhere in mall.. she gets me 4 t-shirts instead.. What the hell do I need 4 more solid color t-shirts for? My SIL gave me a thing that said she had made me a shutterfly book of DD but then informed me that she hadn't done it yet and she needed to take the pics off my computer to do it.. I would LOVE that gift.. but I know I will never see it.. 

I am just exhausted and I want to cry.. I am going to dinner with my parents and DD tonight. I hope things look up

Melissa & Jeff 5-27-06
m/c 1/2/08 and 3/12/08
Eve Amelia- Born 2/24/09. 6lb 9.9oz
Natalie Ruth - Born 6/13/11 7lb 6.6oz
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Re: Vent - Not really having a good birthday

  • {{hugs}} Sorry you aren't having the best birthday. I bet you will have a great birthday dinner with your parents tonight!
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  • Oh hun, i am so sorry your day has not been good, i hope it gets better tonight!
  • Oh no I am so sorry honey.  I hope it gets better you still have a couple more hours.

     

  • first off HAPPY BIRTHDAY

    and I am sorry it's turning out to be a crappy day, hope it gets better!

  • Awe! First here's a big HUG and a happy birthday to you. I find that now with DS her and being tired and sick [and I know that GB pain] I take many things more to heart. Like all I got on mother's day was a card and I was so butt hurt inside forever. The combination of everything makes us see more of the bad than the good. Just remind yourself to be thankful for whatever you got [this is hard for me when i'm upset] and try to stay positive for the rest of the day! Hope dinner tonight is good.
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  • ((hugs)) Happy Birthday.  I hope DH comes home with something wonderful and dinner tonight is amazing.  

    I understand how you feel though, my birthdays are notoriously underwhelming.

     

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    M/c #1 - 10/30/07 - 5w3d, DS1 - born at 36w, M/c#2 - 12/7/09 - 5w, M/c #3 - 1/13/10 - 4w6d, 
    M/c #4 - 3/16/10 - 5w1d, DS2 -  born via VBAC at 40w3d, M/c#5 - 11/5/12 - 7w2d
    BFP #8 - 5/5/13- Looks like a sticky one! DS3 - born via epi-free VBAC at 39w1d

  • I am sorry.  I hope your day gets better.
  • I'm sorry!  I hope today gets better! 
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  • Big hugs and hope tonight is much better!
  • I'm sorry. I hope it gets better. 
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    I am so sorry you aren't having a great day so far.  I hope you have a great time at dinner tonight. Big hugs.
    Suzanne
    Mama to Lewis Elijah-11/18/05
    and Evangeline Mae - 12/06/07
    and two angels 3/17/07 at 5w and 12/16/08 - 11w partial molar pregnancy with bonus chemo
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  • I'm sorry! I hope your night improves. Happy birthday!
  • i'm sorry.  i hope tonight is much better and i also hope that your dh comes home with a fabulous gift or i'll gladly come kick him in the shins for you.
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