Oh, I feel terrible

KKM

Some of you may have read my vent the other day about being sad about my m/c, my dh, and everyone around me is pregnant.  Well, my bff went in for an ultrasound yesterday and all they could find is a yolk sac, and she is supposed to be 8 weeks now.  Just two seconds ago my SIL called to say the urine test the did at the docs was negative so most likely she got a false positive (on yet another Target test).  I know all of this is out of my control, but I feel really bad that I wallowed in my own pitty and now two people I care about are sad.  Karma sucks.

EuroChick

Don't beat yourself up.  Like you said Karma suck, just use this moment to put things in perspective and be happy that you have a healthy and happy little person.  With a bit of luck you will have more healthy babies soon.

CFO

Aww, that's not karma, that's life.  You know that your own grief and sadness had nothing to do with their losses.  What a sad time for all of you - at least you have each other to truly understand the pain.

Zollie2

i have to agree that it's not karma. ok to take time for you and wallow in your own self pity sometimes. it's sad but you each have someone who is going through the same thing and can offer eachother support. (((hugs)))

funchicken

This isn't karma!  You didn't do anything wrong by being sad and venting.  I had no idea how common it was to m/c until it happened to me, and other people I knew started telling me about their experiences.  I'm sorry you and those you love are having to go through this.

NewBlue

This isn't Karma.  Remember, you didn't make this happen.  You had every right to wallow.  It is a horrible thing to go through.  I am so sorry for you, your friend and your sister in law.  Maybe you can all help each other through it.