I just saw your post RE: FET/IVF.
It sounds like you have great insurance coverage so that is definitely a step in the right direction (hopefully, though, after tomorrow you won't need it!). My clinic starts at about 11K with meds 2-4K
CHI pretty much summed everything up. I think the only difference that i had was that they used twilight anesthesia for me. I wasn't totally out....just out of it. Every clinic has its own little twist.
I think it is a scary decision to move forward with, but the best one you will ever make. It is also great that you have a very supportive husband. The whole process seems like a long time, but once you start the lupron, etc. it goes by quickly. Clinics usually have monitoring appts. very early in the am (mine were at 7:30), so i really didn't have to miss work much that week.
I know that you will probably have a million ??? about this, so don't hesitate to ask! Also, another board that i found extremely helpful is ivfconnections.com They have local boards and you may even find someone who has cycled at your clinic.
Good Luck.....and i hope i wrote this all for nothing and you have great news tomorrow.