I dunno if DD is an ageist or what but she can be held fine by our friends but even after seeing my mom for 3 days in a week she still is not happy with her. It started at 4 mos and I thought she just had overall stranger anxiety but it seems to be geared toward her grandparents. I think it hurts grandma's feelings and it is tiring for mom. I hope she can grow out of it soon...
Re: DD still hates my mom :(
DS did the same thing to my dad starting at about 4 months. It took a few months, but he outgrew it and now he loves my dad! I hope it gets better soon!