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cindybafcindybaf
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I just have to say that TTCAL is still a very supportive board. And I don't want what happened today to tarnish that. TTC from scratch after close to two years of painful silence after most of you moved on from PL (I was pretty much self-excluded from the new TTCAL since I was waiting, and I moved past PL).

After two years of waiting, I looked on SAL and recognized nearly no one, but here on PAL was literally everyone I miscarried with in 2007-8. I'm happy for all of you, you're all living the dream we over on TTCAL look forward to.

But I belong now to TTCAL, and it was no one other than Texas that even noticed I was on and welcomed me to TTCAL. She supported me, she's supported others, and she's added laughter to what can sometimes be a very sad and discouraged board. 

I'm not speaking for her, but just saying my peace. Good night!

 

 

  

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  • NoVaIrishNoVaIrish

    Cindy - I remember your name and am sorry its been such a long road for you. ?I hope you and all of the other girls on TTCAL can join us here soon.


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  • rowanthefrogrowanthefrog member

    I remember you as well Cindy and I'm so sorry that you have gone through so much.  Thank you for coming over here.  Today got a little heated on both sides but I think that, in the end, things blew over quickly and everyone has agreed to let it go.  I hope to see you and the rest of the TTCAL girls over here soon.  


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    M/c #1 - 10/30/07 - 5w3d, DS1 - born at 36w, M/c#2 - 12/7/09 - 5w, M/c #3 - 1/13/10 - 4w6d, 
    M/c #4 - 3/16/10 - 5w1d, DS2 -  born via VBAC at 40w3d, M/c#5 - 11/5/12 - 7w2d
    BFP #8 - 5/5/13- Looks like a sticky one! DS3 - born via epi-free VBAC at 39w1d

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  • mrparsley07mrparsley07 member

    I too am sorry for the tough road you've had and I hope you be able to join us soon!

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  • Sueball1Sueball1 member

    I remember you too, Cindy, and I am so sorry you are still in the trenches. It sucks. I am very happy that you've found a supportive place on TTCAL - that's really what matters in the end. I think we were all just worried that it was becoming snarky, but I'm glad to hear it was just one bad day between boards that I hope can remain sisters.

    Much love to you and we all hope to see you over here asap...

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  • damissusdamissus
    Hi, I am not caught up on what happened today on TTCAL but I was compelled to respond.  It took me a while to get from TTCAL to SAL to now PAL so I empathize.  DH and I also kept our loss private so "painful silence" is exactly how we felt.  I really hope to see you here soon.
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  • pinkwedding05pinkwedding05

    hey, cindy, of course i remember you.  i'm sure you know how quickly things heat up when you feel like one of your own is being slighted, but i think it has blown over.  i'm sorry for all that you're going through.  i think of my losses and IF daily and feel like i will always carry the scars.  i really hope that you can join us soon.

    and now i feel guilty for needing to make a dental appointment...Wink

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  • kelly&martykelly&marty member
    I remember you! I'm sorry you are still struggling. I really truly hope every single person on the loss boards get babies soon. None of us will ever forget the heartbreak.
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  • TayLynnTayLynn member
    imageNoVaIrish:

    Cindy - I remember your name and am sorry its been such a long road for you.  I hope you and all of the other girls on TTCAL can join us here soon.


    And anyone can post here whenever.  We love to see familar names. 

    I wish you the best of luck, hon.

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