pregnant sex POLL

Erin W

1) In what ways is pregnant sex different than you or your DH expected?

2) What do you like / not like about pg sex?

3) Do you find anything weird about pg sex? Please explain.

4) Has your DH been worried/scared about pg sex at all? What about?

5) Any funny pg sex situations to share?

dreamscometrue*

this poll implies that I'm having sex....lol!

beacbabe

ugh! Sex is so over-rated!

As of yesterday im on pelivc rest and no sex for us do to me having placent previa! That blows!

Sorry vent over!

leahraewku

Pg sex is pretty much nonexistent for us.  I'd say, maybe, once every three weeks or so.  I just can't get into it.

nicolebuchalla

1) Only thing that's different so far is that I refuse to be on top (I feel huge!) and he can't lay on top of me anymore in missionary, he has to hold himself up.

2) I don't like how tired I am at night, so we've switched to morning lovin

3) Nope!

4) Nope!

kelliwill

#1) I have no sex drive now, especially since we found out it was twins.  I think I'm scared.  Silly, i know, but it's true.

#2) I have no interest

#3) no

#4) Not at all, he still wants it as often as ever and is having a hard time with my not wanting it.

#5) sorry, have none.

buttrflychic05

1) In what ways is pregnant sex different than you or your DH expected? well I figured my pregnant body would be obvious to my DH, but he still "forgets" about my belly during the act and I have to stop him and make him change things
2) What do you like / not like about pg sex? I love that my husband doesn't bug me that we don't have it much (like twice a week, but that's not a lot to my hubs)... I also likes that he is more "gentle" with me and is much more romantic
3) Do you find anything weird about pg sex? Please explain. My husband squishes me.  Or pulls on my belly depending on the position.  Or the baby kicks in the middle of it, and that's WEIRD!
4) Has your DH been worried/scared about pg sex at all? What about? Nothing.  
5) Any funny pg sex situations to share? None. So far.

Jennys1stBaby

DH and I have done a complete role reversal.  I want it all the time and he doesn't.  I'm as horny as ever and he feels wierd having sex in front of the baby.

No one ever wins....

Tamara Stumph

1) In what ways is pregnant sex different than you or your DH expected? It's not really different for us at all at this point.

2) What do you like / not like about pg sex? I like that the orgasms are about 2x as intense. I don't like the constant fear I have that he's sqooshing the baby. It makes it hard for me to orgasm because my mind is thinking about that.

3) Do you find anything weird about pg sex? Please explain. Nothing really. We do every position we did before. I also think about what the baby is thinking while we are having sex. I feel bad if we wake it up from it's nap. HAHA!

4) Has your DH been worried/scared about pg sex at all? What about? He's not. He's happy he's getting action! :-)

5) Any funny pg sex situations to share? My boobs are more sensitive so he bit my right one too hard one time and I screamed. That didn't really bother him. He said sorry and kept going. It REALLY hurt!

Erin W

1) I didn't really realize how much more sensitive I'd be down there. I mean, I'd read that before and I guess it makes sense, but it was still surprising to me when it was true.

2) It was all fun and games until I started feeling all gross and swollen here at the end. Now DH might as well give up. I'm just not into it.

3) The sex dreams are weird! I never knew my subconscious was attracted to some of these random old friends & strange-looking celebrities... Some of these I will NEVER share with anyone. Just too odd for words. LOL.

4) Not until recently. Now that he realizes the doc can "feel" the baby's head during an exam, he can't take it. He thinks he'll be poking the kid.

5) I started getting frisky the other day, and DH started jabbing me in the forehead with his finger to "show me what it would feel like"

p0nd77

dreamscometrue*:

this poll implies that I'm having sex....lol!

This... poor DH... but he is taking it surprisingly well.

uofibabe

Erin W:

1) In what ways is pregnant sex different than you or your DH expected?

2) What do you like / not like about pg sex?

3) Do you find anything weird about pg sex? Please explain.

4) Has your DH been worried/scared about pg sex at all? What about?

5) Any funny pg sex situations to share?

 1) Pretty much the same if we ever have it.

2) I like it as long as I can get in the mood which doesnt seem to be happening and when I finally do it's like a desert down there?!?!

3) Not really - maybe when the belly is beyond just a bump

4) He isnt worried - just wants to make sure I"m fine

5) Nah......not having it enough to really have any .....maybe some gas here and there - LOL!!

gogo2325

kelliwill:

#1) I have no sex drive now, especially since we found out it was twins.  I think I'm scared.  Silly, i know, but it's true.

#2) I have no interest

#3) no

#4) Not at all, he still wants it as often as ever and is having a hard time with my not wanting it.

#5) sorry, have none.

 

THIS THIS THIS..ESPECIALLY, #4

JenniferJaneC

What is this "sex" thing you speak of?  I seem to have forgotten. 

magdusia

1) In what ways is pregnant sex different than you or your DH expected?  the constant carefulness by hubby making sure he doesn't "poke" it and as soon as he thinks he did, he runs away! 

2) What do you like / not like about pg sex? it's too boring now (when it happens)

3) Do you find anything weird about pg sex? Please explain.  Yeah, i feel like we're doing it right in front of him/her! seems to bother hubby more than me tho.

4) Has your DH been worried/scared about pg sex at all? What about? yup yup! as soon as i touch my stomach we're done.  he's scared i'm going go into labor or he's going to poke it

5) Any funny pg sex situations to share? other than him running away when he thinks he poked it, no.

babygirl7892002

1) Although sex doesnt happen as often I definitely find that it is much more pleasurable which I didnt exactly expect!

2) I dont like that Im not in the mood nearly as much as I used to be

3) I just find it weird when I look down to see my belly in the way of everything. Ha

4)  DF isnt worried or scared but he is more precautious and gentle.

5) In the shower one night DF tried to convince me "bend over" like do it doggy style in the shower. The funny part is that he is almost 6' and Im 5'1" so in order to make that work Id have to bend over with my hand basically on the shower floor. Um I was just wondering at what point he'd realize that its uncomfortable to bend over let alone that far! And simply for HIS pleasure! Ha I told him to keep dreaming!

WildHorseFeathers

Well sine you asked, I will open up to the ladies.... 

 

1) It's better when we d hav if than non-pg sex, I think either because we go stints without it or I'm just extra sesitive

2) My belly getting in the way, so annoying, especially when he kicks...

3) The kicking, I think, "Oh my can Justin feel what's going on", like does it seem like someones knocking annoying on the door....ha ha!

4) Just about hurting me and the baby, he's such a good and patient hubby though.

5) I'll wake up in the middle of the night feeling an urge and I'm the one who gets fussed at about it being to late at night.

neonvicki81

Erin W:

1) In what ways is pregnant sex different than you or your DH expected?

 

I wish it was more comfortable...I still find him attractive, but at times of the day where it doesn't really work out (just as he is leaving for work, in the middle of the night after I have gotten up to pee)

2) What do you like / not like about pg sex?

i'm a missionary girl..and its a bit hard, and I'm not lubricated at alll...(naturally)

3) Do you find anything weird about pg sex? sometimes it feels like things are going where they shouldn't be!.

4) Has your DH been worried/scared about pg sex at all? What about?

nope! he knows he can't poke LO

5) Any funny pg sex situations to share?

The dog never seemed to care about it before, but I guess we have been giving off different pheremones so we have to make sure the door is now locked. Before, the dog could be asleep on her bed (no, not in ours) and she could have cared less!

MRSCH

dreamscometrue*:

this poll implies that I'm having sex....lol!

^^^ What she said^^^

mommyof2texans

Jennys1stBaby:

DH and I have done a complete role reversal.  I want it all the time and he doesn't.  I'm as horny as ever and he feels wierd having sex in front of the baby.

No one ever wins....

This.  I had to beg for it the other day. 

jdiaz79

p0nd77:

dreamscometrue*:

this poll implies that I'm having sex....lol!

This... poor DH... but he is taking it surprisingly well.

Ditto!

Vuja_de

1) In what ways is pregnant sex different than you or your DH expected? i have more lubrication than normal, and that is good!

2) What do you like / not like about pg sex? not being able to do certain positions we (i) like.

3) Do you find anything weird about pg sex? Please explain. not really.

4) Has your DH been worried/scared about pg sex at all? What about? no, he has become more horny since finding out i am pg. as i get a belly he gets even hornier.

5) Any funny pg sex situations to share? sure, it is embarassing.. we were having sex and as i was o'ing i farted, very loudy. it was very embarassing! but we both started cracking up i think we laughed for a good 10 min.

catycombs

1. It's reallly about the same.
2. I find it more difficult to have a orgasm because I am constantly thinking about our child.
3. See above.
4. Like most men, he worries about hurting her.
5. I am not sure my DH notices my belly b/c he is too busy looking at my D boobies.

iheartinky

MRSCH:

dreamscometrue*:

this poll implies that I'm having sex....lol!

^^^ What she said^^^

Ha! No sex here either. No interest on my part. Oh well.

redhead712771

1) In what ways is pregnant sex different than you or your DH expected?

I expected him to run scared...he didn't

I expected that I would never want to have sex...I wanted it all the time till a few weeks ago.

2) What do you like / not like about pg sex?

well once I got past morning sickness we had great sex about 3 to 4 times a week, orgasems for me were amazing, and he loved that my boobs were bigger! Until about week 21 when we caused a blood vessel in my area to swell, so sex has been once a week since then trying to let it heal. Recently dealing with the belly has been a turn off for me.

3) Do you find anything weird about pg sex? Please explain.

just not finding myself attractive and my dh thinks I look great, stretch marks and all.

4) Has your DH been worried/scared about pg sex at all? What about? not really, just extra careful of smashing the belly.

 

5) Any funny pg sex situations to share?

yes we started to make out the other day and he was on top of me but just barely touching and the baby kicked his stomach and we both just started laughing and waited till it stopped kicking to  proceed.

karlybarly

1. It is different b/c I have this big belly in the way!

2. Not much I dont like...I wish that we did more!

3. not much

4. DH thinks he is going to squish the baby

5. After we found out it was a girl, I think it made the whole pregnancy 'real' for him. So he was still afraid of squishing her but he kept calling her by her name...it was so awkward. Im like stop saying her name! It is weird!! We couldnt stop laughing the whole time.

juliane2004

leahraewku:

Pg sex is pretty much nonexistent for us.  I'd say, maybe, once every three weeks or so.  I just can't get into it.

Ditto.

Johnna&Ralph

We have has sex ONCE since we have found out that there is a baby growing in there.

 

lolo317

dreamscometrue*:

this poll implies that I'm having sex....lol!

I'm with you, I'm just not?interested?and i'm SO tired. Of course when I want to he's had a long day and he's exhausted or he hurt him self playing softball LOL boys and there games

LitlSara

leahraewku:

Pg sex is pretty much nonexistent for us.  I'd say, maybe, once every three weeks or so.  I just can't get into it.

Me neither and I feel horrible because DH always wants it and keeps telling me how beautiful I am, etc. I know it's important for our relationship so I try to get more into it. Hopefully we'll start having more sex soon. 

Bhahn09

Nothing is really different except I want it alittle more than usual.

MilesOfSmiles

1) In what ways is pregnant sex different than you or your DH expected? We only did it 3x when I was in my 1st tri, as I spotted twice and it scared the crap out of me. Now that i'm in my 2nd tri, i'm horny constantly, spotting has stopped, so we've had a lot more fun. That is way different than either of us expected.

2) What do you like / not like about pg sex? Not like: The spotting... and me feelign really fat and gross. I'm not showing anything but more fat. Like: That orgasms are way more intense.

3) Do you find anything weird about pg sex? Please explain. Not really, maybe i'm not pg enough?

4) Has your DH been worried/scared about pg sex at all? What about? Yes, the heavy spotting in 1st tri scared the crap out of us, and DH thought his stuff would hurt the baby. Several articles later, I proved to him he was giving himself WAAAY too much credit

5) Any funny pg sex situations to share? Not yet!

iheartinky

I recall having sex one time since we found out we were pregnant.  I could care less.  My DH works all the time so at least he gets time to sleep.  Glad to know we aren't the only ones.

kdiaisfly

1) In what ways is pregnant sex different than you or your DH expected?

none really

2) What do you like / not like about pg sex?

I worry about the baby, like if bf is on top and he tries to hold me I worry that he's pushing on my stomach too much

3) Do you find anything weird about pg sex? Please explain.

No.

4) Has your DH been worried/scared about pg sex at all? What about?

No.

5) Any funny pg sex situations to share?

I tried to wake bf out of his sleep last night to have sex with me and he told me NO! Can you believe that, if he wants it tonight I will resist haha

 

 

yourmomwreckedmybike

1) In what ways is pregnant sex different than you or your DH expected? It feels different, i can't explain in what way.. it just is. I was expecting things to be different.. so i was ready for just about anything,

2) What do you like / not like about pg sex? My boobs have been sore since week 4, so that is really annoying. Like i feel nauseus if they are touched.  

3) Do you find anything weird about pg sex? Please explain. Nothing weird.

4) Has your DH been worried/scared about pg sex at all? What about? Only time my DH was worried/scared was the night after we had the first ultrasound (yesterday) and he refused to have sex because he knew there was a baby inside me and he didn't want to hurt it. After an hour of explaining that he would have to be like 16" to touch the baby.. he realized that was a silly fear.

5) Any funny pg sex situations to share?

I find the #4 story hilarious because i was totally expecting him to be weirded out for a few minutes at the most.

 

I don't think i could last longer than a few days without sex. As difficult or weird as i feel... I always crack.

madameprimm

I wish I was having sex. My husband has only been deployed for 2 months, and I'm suffering. Hell I'd be happy just being able to have him back home at this point.