2nd Trimester

if one more person...(vent)

I just came from a cousin's graduation party with my entire family, etc. And We left after two hours because I couldn't handle 1 more person saying "wow you got big" or "Whoa thats gonna be one big baby" do they think it helps to hear crap like that? And seriously its not like I am saying "wow you got bald" or "hey check out that beer gut" People are so annoying!!

Sorry for the vent but DH thinks that people were just trying to compliment me and show how excited they are about the about the baby, but they suck at it!

Re: if one more person...(vent)

  • i know how you feel!  all i hear at work is "how much fun it is watching you grow" or "oh that belly is getting big!!"  UGH!  i know they're trying to be nice but its not like you'd say that to someone who is just getting fat!  i'm a little sensitive about my growth!  i know that baby bellys are cute and all but its not exactly easy on the psyche when everyone and their momma points out how much you've grown ALL. THE. TIME.! 

     just chalk it up to people are stupid and try to ignore it best you can.

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  • I don't get upset about that.  I know my belly is growing like crazy.  I was an average size girl before this so to other people my belly does look huge.
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  • Comments like that don't bother me at all.  I am proud of my bump no matter how big it gets.  We have been through a lot to have this baby so I take it as a compliment.
  • I guess it doesn't help that my sister in law is pregnant too and due in only a month and she is super tiny. Everyone is always comparing us despite the fact that I am 5 inches taller than her and frankly it would make sense if my child is much larger than hers. Plus I am having a boy and she is having a girl, and as I remember during her last pregnancy with her son she was twice the size she is with this kid. I am just bitter about hearing people mention it. Is there nothing else going on in the world that commenting on my weight and size is top priority?...Ok my vent is over.
  • I know, even the nicest people have the dumbest comments. They just want something to say.  I try not to hold it against them.  I don't have much to say to them either.
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  • You're going to have 15 more weeks of those comments.  As much as pg women do not want to hear it, they are going to be told it.  Try not to get too upset about it even though I don't blame if you do!
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