"I think for now you should keep your shirt on"

rinny627

Seriously... who says that??

DH apparently. He told me he doesn't find my boobs/nipples attractive anymore so he thinks my shirt should stay on during sex.

I understand, because they are weirding me out too, but for real, did he have to tell me? I think I would have liked to have never known his feelings on that topic. 

brandiemperdue2

i would of slapped the shiz out of my DH. not very darling if he actually said that, as if we're not freaked out enough about our bodies being larger than normal.

Daisy582

What an arse....tell him to buy you some sexy lingerie if they freak him out that much. Geeez....was he BF as a child? Maybe he has some issues?

Jessie0706

Wow, that kind of made me twinge... That was mean.

just_peachy

sorry to say this, but that is damn insensitive and mean of him.

my DH learned a few weeks ago that saying my legs are starting to get cottage cheese on them wasn't very nice..especially when I pointed out that he looks more pregnant than me right now and is need of sixpack himself.

purple_posies

Throat punch.  =

Really, like we're not already insecure enough about our changing bodies.  I thank God every day my husband tells me continually that I'm beautiful. Next time tell him if you have to keep your shirt on, he has to keep his pants on.   Hehehe ...

Jessie0706

purple_posies:

Throat punch.  =

Really, like we're not already insecure enough about our changing bodies.  I thank God every day my husband tells me continually that I'm beautiful. Next time tell him if you have to keep your shirt on, he has to keep his pants on.   Hehehe ...

Seriously!  Tell him you don't like the look of his wrinkly b*lls so he can keep his pants on. Jerk.

SoonToBeTabor

Thats just mean. Your boobies may be unattractive for the moment but his wanker will ALWAYS be ugly.

Seriously, those things just arent cute.

Jessie0706

SoonToBeTabor:

Thats just mean. Your boobies may be unattractive for the moment but his wanker will ALWAYS be ugly.

Seriously, those things just arent cute.

Especially soft. ::shudders::

joanna1036

My DH is in the room with me now.  I told him about what your DH said, and he said..."Do what???"  He thought that was very mean.  I agree with the PP that a throat punch is called for.

Arlene Holt

rinny627:

Seriously... who says that??

DH apparently. He told me he doesn't find my boobs/nipples attractive anymore so he thinks my shirt should stay on during sex.

I understand, because they are weirding me out too, but for real, did he have to tell me? I think I would have liked to have never known his feelings on that topic. 

This just made me cry. Seriously, my tears are running down my face. I'm feeling so awkward about my body if DH said something like that to me I would just bawl my eyes out and never want to have sex with him again.

I'm so sorry your DH said this. Men just don't understand how hormonal we are and how difficult being pregnant can be.

operaapril

Jessie0706:

purple_posies:

Throat punch.  =

Really, like we're not already insecure enough about our changing bodies.  I thank God every day my husband tells me continually that I'm beautiful. Next time tell him if you have to keep your shirt on, he has to keep his pants on.   Hehehe ...

Seriously!  Tell him you don't like the look of his wrinkly b*lls so he can keep his pants on. Jerk.

Ok, I'd seriously beat him!!!! I agree with the wrinkly ba!! comment!!

HapPapFam

That's a mean thing to say. I would be really hurt by that. Maybe you should talk to him, and tell him how much that hurt your feelings, and if he still does not get it, definitely time for a throat punch!!!

lilone_06

Oh, that's so sad!!  I'm sorry your DH is being jerky.  

just_peachy

Wankers ARE ugly.  Are we supposed to get all hot and juicy and turned on when they whip that thing out and start puppeteering with it?

They remind me of these things:

GEODUCK

 

stephnews

Sounds like he just killed all his chances for nookie until well after the baby is born, at least not without some serious groveling. Jerk.

xnbride

Well I would say "well then I think you should keep your penis in your pants because that is as close as it will be getting to me"

What an insensitive Ahole.  My DH thought this was rude and ridiculous too.  This is a BIG no no for me.  I have alot of patience with alot of stuff my DH says/does but comments about my body is WWIII and luckily he knows this.  I am sorry that your DH has not yet learned this very important concept.  He will soon.

Baby428

What a PEEN!

Bonzai!

I think you should not only take your shirt off, but indulge in nipple play and say, "Well, I'M having fun!"

just_peachy

and a MEAN PEEN at that!

NewMommy2BeFinally

grrr... how mean!

Tonya_G

Daisy582:

What an arse....tell him to buy you some sexy lingerie if they freak him out that much. Geeez....was he BF as a child? Maybe he has some issues?

Yes, because BFing your infant son is going to cause him to dislike his wife's pregnant boobs.

To the OP, your DH is being an arse. I recommend walking around the house shirtless the remainder of your pregnancy. Wonder if there is a book titled "Things You Should Not Say to Your Wife During Her Pregnancy". This would certainly be in there somewhere.

Jessie0706

Bonzai!:

I think you should not only take your shirt off, but indulge in nipple play and say, "Well, I'M having fun!"

LOL! Love it!!

MrsMegF

you should tell him not to worry about the shirt or the pants coming off for a LONG time.....what a douche!!!!

Brooke208

That would be grounds for sex withholding in my home.  LOL.  That's not nice at all.  I'd be mad as hell!

bandwife

Bonzai!:

I think you should not only take your shirt off, but indulge in nipple play and say, "Well, I'M having fun!"

LMAO

Sorry your DH is being such a douche. Let's all hope he works on redeeming himself.

sadielove

Really rude! 

ZAngel

Wow, I can't believe he said that.  Just let him know that he's lucky to even be getting any.  My DH would jump for joy if I was actually in the mood.

lv2bhapi

Ouch!  That's kind of harsh. 

oregontechmom

Even my DH was pretty appalled at that comment.  I agree with pp's - something to the effect of "well you can keep your pants on then" or I particularly liked the nipple play comment.  Stay strong girl and just remember, you can always do it yourself better.

malcivar

SoonToBeTabor:

Seriously, those things just arent cute.

LOL!!!  I almost just spewed water all over my keyboard.

DiscusCoach

Did you ask him if he could put something over his face?

purple_posies

DiscusCoach:

Did you ask him if he could put something over his face?

Ooohh, this one might be better than the pants retort!!

sunnysmile9

If my husband said that, I would have rolled over.

End of sex.

 

mooeta

Tell him next time he can keep his pants on and save you the trouble.

Daisy582

Tonya_G:

Daisy582:

What an arse....tell him to buy you some sexy lingerie if they freak him out that much. Geeez....was he BF as a child? Maybe he has some issues?

Yes, because BFing your infant son is going to cause him to dislike his wife's pregnant boobs.

To the OP, your DH is being an arse. I recommend walking around the house shirtless the remainder of your pregnancy. Wonder if there is a book titled "Things You Should Not Say to Your Wife During Her Pregnancy". This would certainly be in there somewhere.

 You took my comment wrong. I was joking (very dry sense of humor).When I asked if he was or was not BF, I was implying that he maybe had a bad experience at the boob (hence why pregnancy boobs freak him out). I still think that he is an insensitive arse for even saying the comment to begin with.

Cygal

LOL!!!

That is a terrible thing to say, but a little funny. I just bought a nightgown to wear to bed and DH is like, "What are you wearing!?!?"